I'm very tired, pretty stressed out, virtually broke but still alive and kicking. A huge thank you to the many friends who have supported me throughout this difficult time - you all know who you are and I love you all.

I'm guessing that it might be a bit of a black hole as far as bdsm is concerned but, if there are any players, munchers or partygoers in the area, please feel free to memo me and point me in the right direction ( lol ).

Oh, yes, I have been fortunate enough to meet some lovely people recently, including Lush_London, fyrephin, Happy Giant, Baby Girl, the delicious Miss Plum, Sadistic PGK, beestinglips and many others, which has enabled me to widen my circle of friends

I'm a mature, reasonable looking, laid back, polite, kinky, experienced bdsm player, with many friends in the scene but I am always looking to meet exciting new people for friendship and fun. I am currently single, free & available and open to offers, as long as it's for mutually rewarding fun.

I'm happy to chat to anyone, make friends, offer advice ( based on long experience within the scene ). My interests include, but are not limited to, those shown below.

I am hoping to meet a genuine, female slave / submissive who enjoys impact play, gags, clamps, rough sex and toilet degradation. Age, colour, build etc are unimportant, although I do have a liking for EXTREMELY busty, curvy, voluptuous ladies.

I also need someone who would be able to take care of my deep, masochistic side - I enjoy pain, physical humiliation, degradation etc and seek an imaginative, voluptuous female who would enjoy taking me to my limits and beyond, on an occasional but regular basis. NB: I am NOT your typical, snivelling, " do me "submissive - I'm a big, strong guy with a maso streak, is all ( lol ).

I am orally bisexual and happy to provide oral service to completion, especially if there is a lovely lady present and she is turned on by watching the action!

I can accommodate in clean, safe, discreet surroundings but am also happy to travel.

I enjoy club play and private play in equal measure although private play gives a little more scope to explore the darker edges of bdsm.

I'm friendly, genuine, pretty easygoing and approachable and have many other interests outside bdsm, including carp fishing, studying military history, alternative comedy, good food & wine, old movies ( I collect black & white pics of movie stars from the 50's & 60's ) etc.

I don't bite ( unless you ask nicely ) and have a wide network of friends who will personally vouch for the fact that I am genuine & a gentleman ( if a little bit mad, sometimes ).

Feel free to say hi sometime.

Please note: If you are immature, insecure, manipulative, attention seeking, arrogant, economical with the truth, desperate for validation and a poor judge of people or situations, please don't bother me. Been there recently, didn't like it, turned it down, got slaughtered and my stomach hasn't settled down yet.

Thanks.

By the way, I'm told that I'm better and younger looking in real life than in my pictures. That wouldn't be difficult, I hear you all say ( lol ).