Having said that, if you are still interested, here's a bit more:

This is a strange time to be trying to bring someone new into one's life. It is as if we wish we could start well past the "getting to know you" phase and simply have and be able to share the deep warmth and holding of a treasured and trusted friend and lover. That we could be safely sensual and sexual and funny and dumb and insightful without having to run the gauntlet of being desirable, surviving the weirdness of first meetings, first dates, first kisses, first telling of tales one does not tell to strangers without feeling too naked. I make an amazing friend and my best loves have been my best friends. Ah, to have a partner to laugh with, to anoint with honey, to serve and share pleasure with . . . heaven!

I am a book fiend (with degrees from top American universities) and will read everything and anything I can get my hands on. My literary pursuits are fairly eclectic, but I especially adore Restoration comedies, period pieces and non-fiction. I listen to all sorts of music, ranging from classical to classic rock, to jazz and rap, and every shade in between. I adore the martial arts and have a black belt in Kyokushin karate, but I also love the outdoors, museums and the theater. Originally from Mesoamerica, though not of Mesoamerican descent, I speak Spanish fluently. I enjoy cooking and am happy to report that all of my relatives and close friends have survived each and every single one of my dinner parties. I live and work in Los Angeles, but am open to going anywhere in the world for the right man. I am feminine and kinky and witty and kooky. Not only am I fun to look at and play with, but also interesting to speak and discuss things with.

I am seeking deep dominance from a man who is more than me. That is, a man who is smarter, tougher, more competent. In Buddhism and Hinduism, there is the notion of a wisdom figure who is often magical and quite unpredictable . . . I would be delighted to be with a man who could be my guide to the places I do not know (real and imagined) and who would wish to follow me to the places I might lead us to (real and imagined). The ideal man would have an open heart/mind, deep soul, strength, charm, brilliance and wit . . . He would know his own truth and would be open to mine. A man with whom I could share life's simple pleasures. Sure, this situation is a tiny bit less fun than meeting by chance at the Farmers' Market, but it nevertheless seems an interesting path to explore . . . I believe that deep down we all seek true love. It is true for me. And if not true love, then at least friendship and fun, pleasure, play and delight with a minimum amount of brain damage and/or heartbreak.

If you are dominant, very clever, intelligent, yes, but also intellectual, fun, and of course kinky (the filthier and more sadistic, the better. Don't let my seemingly sweet face fool you) . . . here I am thinking of a straight and dominant Oscar Wilde, for those of you for whom I must delineate with precision . . . then please message me. (No married or otherwise attached men, please, thanks.)