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IC Name: kumiko Joined: 3 Feb 2007 Last visit: 101 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Website: http://fluffy-pain...

always beautiful child (from a character in the windup bird chronicles).

I am submissive. A bit inexperienced in the formal sense because it's something I didn't discover until just over a year ago. But, once I did have my eyes opened, everything seemed to fall into place. I now have a little more experience with someone who I will always love and respect. My tick box list is of things I've tried and would do again. That doesn't mean I wouldn't try other things with the right guidance.

I know I still struggle. And I make mistakes and need guidance. My eye-opening experience involved some pain play and since then I have learnt that I enjoy being controlled and will go further and do more if I am in a D/s relationship. Whilst I do not believe I am needy, I am looking for someone who will be committed to spending time with me and who I can trust to help me grow. I'm not looking for D/s outside of a relationship - my aim is to find someone who is both my Master and my partner so I want to find someone who is compatible with me socially as well as physically. I know I need someone who can both dominate me and care for me deeply. For me, this isn't *just* about sex.

I am well educated and independent. My vanilla interests include opera, cinema, literature and theatre and I am seriously into keeping fit. I have a music degree but haven't ever worked as a musician. I do run my own business and have done so successfully now for over ten years. I like good food and wine - eating out and cooking and can be somewhat hedonistic given half a chance!

I'm not interested in couples or married men. My preference is someone around my age (circa 5 years plus or minus) - I know age is just a number - but around my own number works for me. For a relationship, I'd like to meet someone who is also reasonably fit and who perhaps shares some of my interests. For friendship, just someone with things in common and a good sense of humour

Since I have been on IC I have met and submitted formally to two Doms each for periods of a few months. so now I have a little experience Both have released me through circumstance rather than through failure on either part. So, if you genuinely want a D/s relationship and are single, perhaps we might get on.

I'm also unsure of my own pain thresholds again. I'll explain that one if we ever do talk. It's a curious physical phenomenon...and one I need to explore

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Eye colour: Green   Hair colour: Auburn   Height: 5ft 1in   Weight: 9st 7lb   BMI: 24.9  

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