I am also here to make new friends, who are more understanding of the more "alternative" aspects of my life, and if anything were to result from these friendships - such as play partners or other relationships - then that would be grand! Just hoping people remember that some of my vanilla pursuits need to be stimulated as much as my kinky side but do bear in mind the above words.

Now you know what I want, I ought to say a bit about who I am... (i really hate these things)

Well, I am not massively experienced, and consider myself to be a mostly sub "switch" who is fairly open minded - "when i give I do so freely, when I take I do with joy". I have been going to the BBB for a few years now and, while at Uni, I was a member of the Fet Soc - giving me alot of theoretical knowledge of the scene. I am starting to 'come out' of my shell a bit now, and am starting to look at the more practical (so to speak) aspects of the BDSM scene - May '08 saw my first foray to the Dudley Dungeon Club; and what a wonderful time I had as well! Discovering there is nowt more fun than using EStim to give people handjobs. Not had that much fun in a long time!

I have discovered that I am really into play piercing - due to the ever lovely (albeit pain inducing) duo known as Forsaken1 and Sadistic PGK, and I really do appreciate someone sticking something into me. The hard throb of it going into my skin produces a positively wonderful experience. Of course I am talking needles, but as with anything, safety must come first; I will not play with anyone who doesn't follow certain (what i consider) basic safety and hygiene with me and my body.

I am non-sexually bi (anything sexually physical is male only, but the social and emotional side of things I am open to female companionship) which is a bit of a misunderstandable point, and causes confusion for some people; for those people, I suggest thinking of me as a "mostly gay guy".

Physically I am tall and big (but working to reduce the "bigness" gym twice weekly; at the moment anyway). I also sport a pair of ear piercings and several (currently 6) tattoos (each has a story for those wanting to hear them), and these lend themselves to my adoration of needles - of course it is a completely differnet experience, but you still bleed...

I like to think of myself as a kind and courteous guy, but i do have a mean streak within me; something that BDSM is helping to control.

I would like to think I am a fairly intelligent fellow - mostly on the scientific/philosophical side of things (I am part way through my second bachelors degree, this one in physics, with my first in mathematics and I also read alot of philosophical works). For anyone that meets me, I am sure they understand that this is a fairly important aspect of my life - to the extent that some people have already started giving me a reputation because of this.

More vanilla interests include a love of music from some pretty varied genres; examples include The Carpenters, Ladytron, The Shins, Rammstein, Apoptygma Berzerk, Siouxsie and the Banshees, The Bloodhound Gang (grim story there!), Space... I could go on. Also the usual, pubs, clubs etc... Movies, tv shows and computer games pretty much round me off.

So there we go; that is me! Thanks for reading

Konij xx