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I am mostly here to make new friends, who are more understanding of the "alternative" aspects of my life. I am just hoping people remember that some of my vanilla pursuits need to be stimulated as much as my kinky side 
but do bear in mind the above words.
I ought to say a bit about who I am... (i really hate these things)
Note, the quoted information below is from my old profile which is being updated; so please take with a pinch. Thank you.
| Well, I am not massively experienced, and consider myself to be a "switch" (majoritively on the Dom side) who is fairly open minded - "when i give I do so freely, when I take I do with joy". I have been going to the BBB for a few years now and, while at Uni, I was a member of the Fet Soc - giving me alot of theoretical knowledge of the scene. I am starting to 'come out' of my shell a bit now, and am starting to look at the more practical (so to speak) aspects of the BDSM scene - May '08 saw my first foray to the Dudley Dungeon Club; and what a wonderful time I had as well! Discovering there is nowt more fun than using EStim to give people handjobs. Not had that much fun in a long time! Sub me ("Konij" on scene please) has discovered that I am really into play piercing - due to the ever lovely (albeit pain inducing) duo known as Forsaken1 and Sadistic PGK, and I really do appreciate someone sticking something into me. The hard throb of it going into my skin produces a positively wonderful experience. Of course I am talking needles, but as with anything, safety must come first; I will not play with anyone who doesn't follow certain (what i consider) basic safety and hygiene with me and my body. As well as this, I like other play - impact, sensation, electrical, biting etc. I am always trying out new things, but I always need a safe word, or other system, to be fully comfortable with the play - given time and trust this of course diminishes, but to start with it is a requirement. Dom me ("Kon") likes to play from the other side - I would rather have fun than Dominate, and appreciate my play-partner as a person rather than purely as a Submissive. Mostly I like to focus on the lighter side of play - sensory, rope bondage, some light impact, caressing, biting - you get the idea. But I have to trust the person to be able to talk to me both as a friend and as a toy - I need honesty and a sufficient depth of character that I can find somthing to relate with - see my interests below. |
I am a gay, sapiosexual man, but above this subbing to people of either gender is fine - but I will not top outside of my relationship. This is because I find that I like to divorce the idea between BDSM and sex - a person once described "play" as the ultimate foreplay, but I do not think this to be the case - for me play is play, and although this forges deep, intimate connections between myself and those I choose to play with, it means that there is no hidden agenda in what I do.
Physically I am tall and big (but working to reduce the "bigness" gym twice weekly when I can). I also sport a pair of scaffold bars (both in right ear) and nipple piercings and several (currently 7) tattoos (each has a story for those wanting to hear them), and these lend themselves to my adoration of needles - of course it is a completely differnet experience, but you still bleed...
I like to think of myself as a kind, courteous and generous guy, and I will do anything I think I can to make my friends and partners happy.
I would like to think I am a fairly intelligent fellow - mostly on the scientific/philosophical side of things (I am part way through my second bachelors degree, this one in physics, with my first in mathematics and I also read alot of philosophical works). As an idea, this is most definitely my kind of humour! For anyone that meets me, I am sure they understand that my intellectual persuits are a fairly important aspect of my life, one of my quests in life is to find and cherish the idea of "Mind" - that spark that we all contain, that moves us forward throgh our respective lives.
More vanilla interests include a love of music from some pretty varied genres; examples include The Carpenters, Ladytron, The Shins, Rammstein, Apoptygma Berzerk, Siouxsie and the Banshees, The Bloodhound Gang (grim story there!), Space... I have been recently introduced to more electric aspects of music, and I could go on. Also the usual pubs, clubs, movies, tv shows and computer games etc pretty much round me off.
So there we go; that is me! Thanks for reading
Satoshi Kin xx
MSN ID:please Eye colour: Grey Hair colour: brown Height: 6ft 3in Weight: 23st 12lb BMI: 41.4
This profile was last updated on 13 Aug 11, 7:27 PM.
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