Often found at the Norwich munch, or the CK parties when time allows. To find me, look out the back with the rest of the dirty & unlcean, to find her, look for the one bouncing around as if with ADHD. Now also to be regularly found at the Ipswich Munch as a co-organiser.

We live out east, so much so that the next stop travelling east is Rotterdam. An animal friendly house with 3 dogs, we generally keep ourselves to ourselves, not so much members of the scene, as members of our scene. Not really public people at all, we attend the munch and parties for the social aspects more than the play.

We are currently seeking, although not actively, another, or more, to join in with her. This could be semi-regular casual, or something more. We are mainly wanting a female to top her, there is no real need for any involvement with me. Of course if a switchy female came along who happened to want to top her and sub to me then I am sure we could work around it

We both enjoy travelling, and getting out into the countryside and over the next few years have a minor aim to attempt a tour of as many munches as possible.

Age play has recently become a big part of how our relationship works, but for just casual play there is no real need for anyone else to try fit in with that.

I am a firm believer in liberty, but an equally firm believer that rights and liberties must come with responsibilities and duties. Not actually as facist as I appear in my posts, I lean more towards rational anarchy.

On the BDSM side, I am happy within the caring/nurturing daddy/girl relationship that works for us at the moment, but do have an interest in some of the more raw, primeval aspects of bdsm, ones that push the boundaries of taste and acceptability. I am aware of my dark side, and have toyed with it and examined it in some depth, and am happy to keep it to one side, or to give it space to breath as circumstances and people dictate.

And in answer to this....

MisterBear wrote: Favourite chocolate/sweets.

• Chocolate Limes
• Jelly Babys
• Plain Chocolate Bounty
• Chocolate Eclairs

and this....

scribbles wrote: I generally look for: Whether they have a partner and if so who, and a link; whether they're Looking; rough idea of how they see life the universe & everything; whether they might welcome a memo based on friendship or just find it a waste of time; vague hint of their attitude to, preferences, experience, of kink; some gist of what they're like as a person. Some of this comes across in how they say things as much as what they say.#

• Yes
• Yes, for her more than for me
• As a mess of greys with a need for imagination
• Memos always welcome, no matter the reason
• Well hopefully some of that is covered elsewhere on here, if not, the memo me button is further up, I dont mind answering questions, its a heap easier than trying to talk about me