I've had a lot of experience in the domination/discipline area, I know what all the toys do and how to use them to the right effect. From hands to whips, from hair pulling to rope, from kissing to anal I am experienced and good at it.

Domination is about control and self control is the first essential building block. No dominant who aspires to be respected would look to control another before he has mastered himself.

I have been into this lifestyle all of my adult life and have been learning from day one. I don't see this changing, ever.

I truly enjoy being a dominant man and see it as the natural order. As such I need a submissive woman to call my own to complete me. As a Dominant man I need to know I own you to your core. In time you will know what is acceptable to me and never step outside those rules. When we walk out, we will both know it is my mental lock that is keeping your legs together and that cherished look on your face.

I am attached and will not be changing this for you. If you can't handle that don't make contact. I certainly have better things to do with my time than deal with small minded people who cannot envisage that other people live their lives their way.

My natural preference is to hold up my submissive as one to be cherished, one to be proud of. How long it takes you to achieve this status is down to you. I will certainly push you hard to get there quick but it's your effort that means you make it or fail.

I do not subscribe to this mantra that once a sub has given over it is down to the Dom to make all the decisions and make everything happen. Quite the reverse. If you're unsure of something I expect you to ask, but once told I expect you have listened. It is the subs duty to serve, to provide what the Dom needs. I can assure you there are very few Doms in this world who “need” a dumb bitch, there's a plethora of those in the vanilla world.

So be prepared to work, and work hard, if you wish to be allowed to suckle on a morsel of forbidden fruit thrown under the table for you. And have it in your nature to lick clean in gratitude the fingers that feed you.

I am a multifaceted sexual being (that doesn't mean bi, gay or tv btw).

By multifaceted I mean I am equally as happy being a comforting shoulder as I am making your eyes flutter in pain, pleasure or shame. I am just as likely to lick you as I am to take handful of your hair and fuck your mouth. I will tie you into tight explicitly revealing positions making you available for my use one day and the next I will insist you hold position yourself no matter how much you want to squirm or wriggle. I will take you out in evening dress and finery one day and the next naked except for your lead.

You can call me Sir, Master, Daddy or anything else that feels comfortable. My only stipulation is that you say it with passion and dedication. Though I must admit, the word Daddy does hold a very special place in my heart.

If you want an ongoing relationship that builds with time and trust and allows us both to explore our perversity, I am happy. If you want to visit me for discipline from a sane and experienced mentor as and when you need it, I am happy. If you want to chat and make a friend who understands the baser needs in life, I am happy.

BUT, if you wish to see me smile from inside then be aware I know I am a sadist.

If your tears make you feel weak, they make me feel strong. If your fear at the cruel smile on my lips makes you whimper, it makes me laugh in delight that you've accepted your fate.

When the time is right I will introduce you to the delights and torments of singletails and complete abandonment of your body.

I am passionate about erotic art photography and will welcome anyone who wishes to see what can be done with a little light, a few props and a fertile imagination. On this score I don't mind being contacted by males as well, a beautiful body is a beautiful body.

I am just at home with a fledgling allowing space and time to develop as I am pushing the most experienced paintoy who “drops” with a look.

I know what “The voice” is and should I feel you need to hear it I will slip into its use seamlessly.

My aim is to put you into your own particular version of sub-space thus allowing me to sail gloriously in dom-space above you. I take on the responsibility that once you have succumbed it is my duty to care for and protect you as I lead you through the myriad of pleasures and sensations until I gently allow you to float back to the surface.

I feel comfortable dressed in leather wielding a whip at a club or dressed in a suit wandering casually around a gallery or museum.

You will find me courteous and gentlemanly on the outside and strong and imaginative on the inside.

I have met some wonderful special gifted people on my journey. I hope to meet a lot more.

My last submissive is the most cherished delicate angel I was privileged to call my own. She has moved on due to circumstances and now I find I am ready to pour myself into another. To see that look of trust in anothers eyes, and to give it back.

If I seem arrogant, it's because I am. I've seen and met the competition, and I'm not scared.

But most of all, I like to smile. Are you capable of making me smile?

What I am also looking for, what I'm always looking for, are sexy people to photograph. I'm slowly (very slowly ) putting together a collection of b&w Ds based erotica. I don't need stunning model looks or bodies just sexually aware and exhibitionistic people who want to work with me to create a moment of awe.

Distance is not a problem with this side as I can travel freely and there are so many studios and locations up and down the country for hire that even if you live 400 miles away on an island it could still be doable.

If you've ever held a pose when you've been on your own and thought how deeply, gut tremblingly submissive or dominant it was - Get in touch. I want to use my skills to refine and immortalise it for you, and here's the good bit - it's a lot of fun to be captured by me .

My Ideal person is something I will decide upon when I meet her and she has proved herself.

To me, the submissive who bends over to receive her correction because she knows it is right and just will never disappoint me.

I'm a pleasant, kind and considerate man outside of the bedroom. But inside it I'm very old fashioned. I believe in the status of a Gentleman and the compliancy of a Lady. I will spank you because your bottom excites me and I will flog you because you need it.

You will not be selfish. This is a trait I abhor, and will beat it out of you, taking no pleasure in doing so.

You don't need to be model thin or striking, but you do have to have something about you. I do get the eye quite often when I'm out, whether that's because I'm thought of as attractive or my presence says something about me, I wouldn't say. But you should be capable of attracting men without having to resort to naked pictures and "careful lighting".

Whilst I know enough about the submissive mind to know that every one wants to be “the No 1 sub”, I will expect you to be in control of your jealousy enough to partake and make enjoyable group sessions, either where I allow you to be used or where I ask you to bring a submissive sister to the party.

What I do look for though is an overriding sense of fun and caring. As a dominant man I do expect to be thought of respectfully and with a sense of duty.

Be real and so will I. xx

OH YES one other thing.

I don't crash out messages to every girl on heat. If I make the effort to write to you, please have the courtesy to write back. I'm not every ones cup of tea but I don't lose sleep over it.

And if I ask for a picture, it's your face I'm after. Your crotch tells me absolutely nothing about you.