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Profile:	just_m
Created on:	4 Feb 2007
Last visit:	14 days ago
Country:	UK
Location:	SW or sub space
Sex/gender:	Female
Hair colour:	auburn
Eye colour:	green
Weight:	9st 5lb
Height:	5ft 8in
BMI:	19.8
Sex/gender seeking:	Male
Ad title:	m
Ad updated:	454 days ago

A bit about myself through other people's words:

"The heaviest of burdens crushes us, we sink beneath it, it pins us to the ground. But in the love poetry of every age, the woman longs to be weighed down by the man's body. The heaviest of burdens is therefore simultaneously an image of life's most intense fulfillment. The heavier the burden, the closer our lives come to the earth, the more real and truthful they become.

Conversely, the absolute absence of a burden causes man to be lighter than air, to soar into the heights, take leave of the earth and his earthly being, and become only half real, his movements as free as they are insignificant.

What then shall we choose? Weight or lightness?" Milan Kundera

I've been told I'm an enigma and mysterious.

I love contrasts and blurring the lines between conventional and controversial. I'm fully aware of and comfortable with my desires and needs but constantly looking to grow, learn, understand, expand. That is why I'm here...

I'm very expressive, artistically in my photography and sexually in my D/s relationships. I'm not afraid to love wildly, viscerally and give one hundred percent to the moment. I'm bold, adventurous and yet shy and cautious in my choices.

Intelligence is something I'm deeply attracted to. I'm intrigued by words - written or verbal, instructed or whispered in my ear - my body and soul respond to them violently. I speak four languages, love reading and have a MA in English Literature & Linguistics...and yet I'm painfully aware of how little I know.

And if there was ever been a woman that intoxicated me with her beautiful mind and writing: “I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Anais Nin

I've done the vilest things, the foulest things but I've done them superbly. I feel innocent...

(Please read the cautions on About Personal Ads before responding to an advert. In particular, "Flat 51, 17 Holywell Hill, St Albans, AL1 1DT" is a mailbox address used by a persistent scam artist.)