Pretty Bird

IC Name: just_iana Joined: 6 Nov 2005 Last visit: 35 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: SE UK, UK Age: 47

**December 2010 ** time to update this again, just not sure yet what to write...life's good, and I'm smiling... thats enough for now!

I've changed previous updates as they are no longer appropriate, and, out of privacy and respect, but they were good times, and we've parted as people who matter to each other.

**Oct 2009 ** (this is as things were,)

I feel wanted and protected, enjoyed and anticipated. He makes me smile from the inside! This is good; because he makes me cry on the outside at times! He's brought a new word to me...Yum!

Intimacy and giggles abound, smiles and cuddles common currency in our exchange, and so much more!

now enjoying exploring ownership of me

**March 2008** I am not so much avidly looking as hoping to be bumped into! I know who I am and what I want, and I'm very comfortable with that…and He will be prepared to take the time to know me too, and allow me the same of him.

Ultimately I wish to be part of a relationship which encompasses this lifestyle with a normal family and work life, and where the dynamic is constant but private to us.

There will be rules, framework, discipline and lots and lots of fun too. He will be more realist that fantasist, he will understand I am able to make my own decisions, and do not need micromanagement, but that I thrive in a framework. He will encourage me to succeed as my own person, not solely as his shadow, and will enjoy my successes with me, as I would for him.

What does he get from me, simply put - everything I am able to give of me. Not instantly, not static, but over time evolving as the relationship deepens, his rules, his direction, his choosing..

Original post..***Oct 2005*** Hi, i am going to update this as i go along i think,.,,

I'm not new to D/s...have about 6 years experience, but at a fairly inexperienced level, mainly just from a 4 year relationship with my previous Master.

We have split for "life" reasons, and are trying to remain friends..

i have a very happy "nilla" life with family, friends and a career (just no partner), and am not looking for a quick fix, or play only relationship..

(For clarity,. i do not seek to become used as a couples plaything either, so please dont bother to mail me for your man, thats not my thing at all! - apologies, but have a few of those mails recently)

if you'd like to know anything else please feel free to ask...i'm happy to chat about most things, but am looking for a serious relationship, so would prefer not to get into sex related discussions too early, its more important that we have other things in common first!

oh, one more thing, i am 5 ft 8, size 18, and happy with who i am !

Eye colour: hazel   Hair colour: dark brown   Height: 5ft 8in  

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