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I am contemplating at the moment, however I am in no rush to enter a relationship at this stage. Contemplation is a word that means thinking about and considering, however if the man of my dreams came my way then hey ho, I may have to go with the flow. Those of you who feel that you can nudge my 'contemplation' into 'consideration' after me giving you the green light, should understand that if you do not show that you are keen, I won't believe that you are interested, I like contact, daily preferably, just a text or a quick call just to keep the momentum going. If you say you are going to do something then you better do it as thats one quick way to make me uninterested,then i'm oh so stubborn when you want to apologise. If you want me to submit then you need to make sure this is a two way street,and treat me as you want to be treated.

I asked a few friends to describe me and they came back with unhelpful things like:

Petulent (yeah right)

Stroppy (pffft)

Mischevious ( weheyy)

Pretty caring (whatever that means)

Intelligent (I liked that one)

Sensitive,

Determined,

Independent,

Assertive ,

Don't take this as a need to be broken and if you look at that list and think that is exactly what I need then don't bother to contact me. No married men or those that are attached please, dont waste your time.

I guess I am all of the above and more, a bitch maybe at times, cry baby at others. I am me and it is hard to change who you are. I love with a passion, I live with a passion. I love my life and who I am.

My family and friends are totally important and it is vital that you can get along with them as I will never give them up. In fact I find it hard to distinguish my closest friends from family so that shows how important they are to me. They tell me the truth, they love me and comfort me as I do them, they even try to sell me .

So my criteria is as follows and if you fit this then contact me and see how it goes.

You are a kind and experienced Dom, who is wanting more than a D/s relationship.

You are a strong minded man who will take no crap off me.

You are an imaginative man who can keep my interest.

You love music from heavy rock to Opera.

You are around my age.

You are mature and comfortable with yourself and who you are.

You are fairly local.

I have been in the scene for ten years and would call myself fairly experienced but not set in my ways.I identify as primarily sub although there have been switchy moments in my life, but these are few and I am inexperienced in this area.

I have children, one is 13 so he is with me for a few more years yet so this is something that you have to be comfy with.

If you want to know more then please ask.

Experience teaches wisdom, and over the last few years I've had quite a few experiences. To be considered half as a good as a man, a woman has to work ten times as hard, and I've worked a hundred times as hard, and I still get half hearted regard. So listen up and maybe this will be the last time you compare me to any other female. I wouldn't strive to be an over achiever. if I wasnt such confident an underdog. So big up to the important ones, thanks to my enemies for the motivation, may God give you strength to be stay strong, cos I know I will.