I seek to combine my vanilla and bdsm worlds in a long-term relationship, combining physical and intellectual attraction.

I enjoy some pain especially being spanked and whipped, hair pulled, treated roughly but also gently. I have no experience of public displays but know I would enjoy it..especially private parties...serving...being the entertainment...being touched by strangers under the guidance of a dom. I am more likely to have the courage to go to a private party than a public one: discretion being the reason for reticence.

I love leather. Love to be bound and overpowered. A man's hand over my mouth. A hand at my neck...guiding my head..forcing my gaze where he wants. A hand forcing my legs apart as I struggle to retain my dignity. I love ropes, chains and tape...hot wax...gags and blindfolds... whips and canes...and other toys. I love my face to be slapped during a scene but I know this is hard for some Doms and it's not essential for me.

Often vanilla but then wild urges to be used as a sub. I am a classy girl at ease in all social situations. I enjoy luxury and being pampered. Complex, intelligent, deep and sensual. That's me. I would enjoy playing with a Dom whose vanilla life is in the city, medical profession or legal world..they are areas to which I relate. I find intelligence combined with power incredibly attractive.

I love to dress to please. If I am pleasing myself, then i would say I have a fascination with corsets and love stockings and high heeled shoes and boots. My hair looks good put up, tied up or loose over my shoulders. I would love a Dom to take me to have a corset fitted and to choose one for me. I like to be guided as to what I should wear and how I should present myself.

I am not looking for a 24/7 TPE or Master/slave relationship...I do need to function in the real world too.

Ultimately I seek a partner who can combine the bdsm and vanilla sides of life...and fulfil the romantic side of my needs too. Please - no married men and that includes those who are separated. Am I asking too much of life?

Apologies if this is too long and detailed. Thank you for reading. Wilful x

ps Feel free to memo me...but please don't send me an unsolicited chat request.