I'm Paul, and I'm pretty new to the whole bdsm thing; but there have always been a few related ideas that turn me on a lot, and I've had a few opportunities to try some fairly light bsdm and have really enjoyed it. I guess I'm here to find out what's out there, get a few ideas, find out what I actually want; maybe meet some people to experiment with. Both top and bottom work in my head, but I think I'm more interested in exploring topping at the moment; this may change, and I'm not ruling anything out. In general I find that if someone I'm with is into something enough then I get pretty into it too - I'm pretty open-minded and not particularly squeamish, and I do want to try practically everything eventually!

I'm a cheerful, friendly guy, usually full of energy and enthusiasm, willing to go to practically any lengths for my friends. Hate doing nothing, love to keep busy and make use of every second of my life! I enjoy singing, dancing, acting; eating out, theatre once in a while. I'm generally good for intelligent, witty conversation (with occasional delving into the depths of the gutter), and I'm non-judgemental and honest.

Height: 5ft 10in  

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