I am a dom, not a demon.

IC Name: ignited_thoughts Joined: 15 Nov 2005 Last visit: 39 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: SE, UK Age: 35

"Biggest human sexual organ is between the ears and not between the legs" - Anonymous

If ever was a sentence to sum up my approach to the world of BDSM - it would be that.

Who am I?

About me : 35 yr old assertive, controlling male from the South East. In real life, I work as a senior executive and am what might be aptly described as a 'suit'. Below that suit and outside the office, I am dominant male, who seeks submission and power exchange. All personality tests list me as ENTJ or equivalent ( strategists, general, director or manager). I am an old school type of guy.

I hold a high power job in the city. Yes, I am highly ambitious, and that does translate to long hours and high stress.

Outside work, I am laid back and light hearted. Enjoy fine wine, good music and a relaxing meal.

More details about my approach to life in my blog postings...

What do I seek?

I seek cerebral submission. My proclivities are for the fine art of spanking and domineering control of the submissive mind and spirit. I do not believe in pain/ spanking/ bondage /humiliation for sake of the act itself- each of those, for me, is a tool to use to express my dominance of the sub's mind. I would love to introduce a new submissive to the lifestyle as I love to mould (hate the word 'train').

About you

Female, with a deep desire to submit and relinquish control. Kink with a dose of vanilla is ideal (Kinkalla, if you might). Interest in being bound and spanked would be nice. Rest is up for negotiation.

My other interests

I have a voracious appetite for knowledge and want to understand anything and everything. To me, knowledge is truly power. I love books and browsing the net on a vast array of topics - from military strategy of Rommel to the fine art at the Louvre. Love to travel off the beaten path. Live life - love life, play hard, eh?

Its difficult to condense my entire life and thoughts onto a short profile page, so why don't we chat for a few moments and see where we go from there....

Postscript

If you have reached till this point - great- thanks for reading. It is a sad commentary on the world that I have to say what I say next... If you are looking for a white cacausian male, I will disappoint you. However if you are looking for fun, intelligent company - go on, memo me.

Eye colour: Black   Hair colour: Black   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 12st 8lb   BMI: 25.8  

This profile was last updated on 22 Apr 12, 12:10 AM.

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