6 Jan 2012

IC Name: icklekitty Joined: 6 Jan 2012 Last visit: 90 minutes ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Age: 25

NB - Sorry, but to make things easier I should let you know that I'm more likely to respond to a memo than a chat message initially, and I'll be more inclined to chat if you have a reasonably full profile and are happy to offer up the things you ask for (e.g. photos).

I'm not entirely sure how to word myself here without sounding like some kind of dating advert...on a broad level, I'm a small brown person into poststructuralism, music, and dressing like your slutty grandma.

My fetishes are more about the psychological aspect than fancy toys. I don't get off on being hit; I get off on serving a dominant man, and one that deserves to be in that position. This may well involve pain, service, age/pet/public play; the goalposts tend to change per encounter. At the core is the idea of having that amount of trust in someone that you're able to let go completely. Because of this, my sexual preferences are more to do with exploration than a *thing* that *needs* to happen for me to get off. And it fits so perfectly with the rest of my beliefs and lifestyle.

For a plethora of reasons, I naturally fall - or at least desire to fall - on the submissive side of the dynamic. A lot of people I know are surprised about this and assume I would be the dominant person in a relationship because this is how I have to behave out in the Big Wide World. I feel comfortable being dominated by either sex (or any in between) but would only willingly dominate as a means to an end (i.e. to please a third party).

Obsessive interests: 1920s-1950s, aesthetics, art, city life, cocktails, corsetry, deconstruction, Eurostar, film noir, francophilia, gaia hypothesis, goth clubs, high heels, hourglass figures, integrity, intelligence, languages, lies, linguistics, live music, London-Paris-Berlin, nineteenth century photography, pontificating, porn, post-structural theory, subversion, surrealism, sushi, tattoos, teh internets, theatre, theremins, travel, underwear.

Those equally appreciative of keywords might like to look at my Fetlife profile, which is a little more specific regarding my kinks: https://fetlife.com/users/1290877

If you dress well, are covered in (well thought out) tattoos, bilingual, deeply passionate and expressive, and intelligent to the point of being a bit of a dick, we'll probably get on splendidly.

If you clearly haven't read my profile, can't spell, don't convey a sense of personality (vanilla extends beyond sex), and think you can make me submit by playing mind games, kindly fuck off. Also not looking for anything monogamous or anyone under 35.

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Black red   Height: 4ft 10in  

This profile was last updated on 4 May 12, 8:09 PM.

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