I enjoy scening in public (or private), and normally find it a really positive and enjoyable experience (though that might be because I'm subspacing my head off).

I'm a generally tactile, fun and outgoing person and don't have any pretenses about me. I've a reasonable tolerance for pain, and enjoy flogging, spanking, whips, cbt, nipple play, wax, strapons, gags (ball gags, phallic, panties...), electrics, blindfolds, corsets, chastity belts (actually, I really like them a lot), cross dressing under normal clothes, tramping and anything else you might care to think up. I'm pretty much up for anything, so if I don't say, try me.

I'm generally friendly and approachable, though if I'm suspended by my arms in some club and being flogged by a fantastic looking Domme in tight rubber weilding a whip - that might not be the best time to say Hi; saying that, if your another Domme and want to join in the fun, it might just be!

Whilst I have really enjoy my experiences in club play, I'd really like to meet a partner whose into the scene so that I can explore things a bit more deeply.

About Me? I'm a geek (but not a HNG). I'm a geek in the original cool sense of the word. I'm a pragmatic, intelligent, independant, free-thinking, hyper focused, problem solving, intense, wanting to learn geek that's occasionally quiet and reclusive. I'm enthusiastic about things I do (else why would I be doing them). I love my job (I'm a programmer). With me you get what you see.

I'm up for trying anything, any place, any where (well maybe not at 4am in the rain 30 miles from nowhere, but hey there is an exception to every rule right?). From recent experience, I'm also up for it in clubs. ( fives scenes on my first night in a club kinda suggests I enjoyed it, doesn't it.

When not being kinky, I'm into motorbikes and diving. In work I'm a senior systems programmer (but you probably aren't interested in that, other than I've got a job, that pays money and I'm financially independent). I also like cooking and eating good food with friends and going to the cinema.

If you really want to know what makes me tick, then grab me on MSN or yahoo. I actually really like talking to people via IM ( you'll probably get more out of me that way ). If asked a direct question I find it impossible to lie. You could always consider sending me an email...

What else...? I've an over active imagination, i find the idea of enforced chastity really exciting, but quite frankly it scares the hell out of me - though I'm gradually over coming that fear... I enjoy giving other people sexual pleasure, and having someone use me for their pleasure without thought for mine also is cool.

If your into star signs, I'm a libra. Whilst I can't say I believe it all, the traits stated for a libra at http://www.astrology-online.com/libra.htm are utterly spot on for me.

I'm really happy to play in public (did I mention that bit?), and sometimes play a bit cheeky just for the show; though I can be really quiet and subbie as well.

As for what I'm after. I know I want a relationship. Casual play isn't where it's at for me - even though it can be highly enjoyable with the right person, ultimately I want the extra depth that comes with a relationship. I need a huge amount of mental stimulation. I need focus. I want to be the object of someones daily thoughts, and them mine. I want to be surprised by their devilshness. I want to be challanged, for someone to push my boundaries. i want someone who knows what i want before even I do. I want to be able to please them, to make them happy. I want them to be proud of me. Inside, I have a desire to make people happy.

It's not an ownership thing, I still feel I'm too independant and self controlled, too self assured. I don't feel needy, I give of myself. in submitting to someone, i feel strong and fullfilled. I want someone to control this strength. To provide me with direction, hope and love.