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IC Name: hothoneyuk Joined: 1 Apr 2008 Last visit: 11 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: South West/South East, UK Age: 41

Submissive at heart, with a slightly switchy streak for the right man. I live in Devon, but have friends in the SE and hope to relocate to the Oxford area shortly.

If you are married, a smoker or attached, please pass on by. I am not likely to find you attractive if you are under 5ft 9, or over 47. I am also not attracted to men who are bald or shave their hair. Personal preference, just as you must have yours. So please don't waste my time or yours.

Single graduate, looking to be liberated. No children, own house, business. Curvy, sometimes feisty, warm, passionate, loyal, big smile, buxom, professional, determined, feminine and sensual.

Relatively new to finding and accepting my inner submissiveness and hope I might find that special bond and level of trust to help me explore it further. I see BDSM, D/s as an addition to a normal, fun, healthy relationship and sex life. I have a very vanilla identity, long may that continue. I seek someone who wants to have a few giggles as we shut the world out & our imaginations in. I value one on one, an intensely personal experience, sharing and challenging with a man I care for and about.

I seek my partner in every sense of the word, quid pro quo, my equal, the left to my right. Someone to stimulate me as much mentally as physically, not really in a D/s sense even, but through your own persona, your own personal integrity, with the power of your own smile. So no I am not interested in becoming a play partner.

I have finally realised that I can't live without elements of this lifestyle, but the same goes for vanilla. I also accept that the highs are undescribable, but the lows rip the very fabric out of your soul.

Rlbayern you opened my eyes and continue to do so dear friend. For good & bad, thank you for showing me a glimpse of a life & a love, a little less ordinary. You are the most influential person to have touched my life, albeit a toad and for that and the continued fun I thank you.

For me, this as much about a cerebral process as it is physical, I am looking to have you dig around a little in my mind and awaken new senses. In my job I manage others, I have a position of responsibility.

Are you able to hold me with the power of your mind, your presence & eventually capture my heart without the bind of ropes? That said what better way than to relax on a cold, dark evening than with the right company & a decent length of rope!

Looking for a gentleman of a similar age who seeks a one on one relationship. Intelligent, relaxed in his demeanour, conversant in the ways of women (read understands the need for shoes, chocolate & lipgloss), interesting & interested, ethical, witty, gentle with his dominance, sensual, strong but caring, cultured & most of all an articulate man, with decent shibari/bondage skills? Whilst I am no 'princess' I want to be treasured as the little gem that I am. Wry smile and lowered eyes, I have a lot to offer you!!

I would venture to say you need to be quite an exceptional person, bit of an old romantic (ssshhh I won't tell), but subtly so, a one off. I am a natural pleaser, caring, but no fool. Iron fist and velvet glove, I have been told.

You should enjoy watching Top Gear snuggled up on the sofa & be equally entertained as I by the trio & their antics. Hope you will have me bound & protesting (or gagged) whilst I show my wrath as you block my view. (one way or another!) I jokingly call my wish list 'vanilla with spice' but that is just what I seek.

I have learned the crucial lesson never to suffer second best in life, to reject mediocrity & know my inner strengths. Strive for what I seek, love with all of my heart even if it one day breaks it, Live life to the full because you never know when the merry-go-round will stop.

*** on a personal note ***

I enjoy walking and countryside activities, have a huge passion for Formula 1(try a hogtie during a race & watch me fight back) & other forms of motorsport, rugby, cooking, museums, car shows, am a regular little Nigella, bit of a foodie, love dinning out, shopping, love history, foreign travel, visiting places of interest, swimming, the theatre, cinema and all things al fresco (oh err) ....really have a wanderlust at the moment. Life doesn't stand still and neither should we.

"The difference between perseverance and obstinacy is that one comes from a strong will, and the other from a strong won't." Henry Ward Beecher

Eye colour: green   Hair colour: blonde   Height: 5ft 4in   Weight: 11st   BMI: 26.2  

This profile was last updated on 18 Mar 12, 10:52 AM.

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