Every cliche and chat-up line ever invented has probably been seen in IC; let's face it guys, we've all used them. Do they work? Would a mistress be impressed by me repeating something not very clever written by someone else?

If I am to get to worship the sex organ that keeps a woman's thighs apart I reckon I have to appeal at least a little to the sex organ that keeps her EARS apart! Isn't her brain where a woman's intelligence, wit, playfulness, control, power, girlishness, inventiveness and imagination come from? Isn't her brain what she uses to control her other bits, and her life, and her relationships? The way to a man's heart may be through his stomach but the way to a woman's is so much more of a challenge.

I'm after an adult woman who knows what she wants, wants to be worshipped during playtime and respected and admired in real life. A woman who will be both tiger and kitten at her will and without warning, one who will tease and surprise, let her imagination go free when I hand over control to her. She will be able to laugh AT me when she makes me do ridiculous, humiliating and silly things, then laugh WITH me afterwards in real life. I am looking for a lady who knows she has the power to torment with 101 thorns but then says afterwards did I notice how pretty the roses were.

And yes, like you, I want love, sex, romance and fun as we all do. I want to walk in the sunshine with a friend who knows and likes the real me. I am submissive by nature, do love, and always have loved, women and love occasionally to hand over control, be restrained, have my senses taken away from me and returned at someone else's will and pleasure not my own. I cross-dress, and explore, and pursue my curiousity about myself and women as a normal part of a healthy balanced life, wherever the trail leads me. I want to develop my Tantric view of the roles of female and male in life more practically. I'm different and wouldn't want to be any other way; life is a huge adventure.

I have a busy real life, the woman of my dreams would have too. I am not a doormat and neither will she be a harridan. She will demand and earn respect from me as I will from her. The woman of my dreams or, to be realistic and sensible just my friend, will certainly be safe and sane, honest, imaginative, have a great sense of humour and the ridiculous. She will have a rich and fertile imagination and want to use it and share it.

My real life so far? Very exciting and it ain't over yet, well travelled, adventurous, well educated, own teeth etc.

Your real life so far? No idea, I haven't met you yet. I do know there are the most amazing women out there - powerful, strong, soft, sensual and funny - surprise me, do.

Our future? No idea. Let's start with an email hello and see what, if anything, happens.

Yahoo messenger:happy_shaktiva   Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 10in  

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