My "New Rocks"

IC Name: gothian Joined: 3 Jul 2007 Last visit: 5 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: PR / FY NW Lancs. , UK Age: 100

I am bi-sexual with a quiet shy personality, also friendly, genuine, honest and a non-smoker. I live on the Fylde coast in NW Lancashire. I very much like the Goth scene, however my Goth appearance is purely restricted to clubs, private events / parties and play sessions (if requested).

I am looking for a long-term play partner / friend and hopefully a relationship with someone I wish to see on a regular basis not only to have kinky fun with but also to enjoy life with (although not living together). While seeking this I certainly still wish to have plenty of fun along the way.

What I seek: Long-term - A “bi” / "bi-curious" or “gay” male in their mid/late 20's or in their 30's particularly those who have very long hair or a Goth (emo / alternative / mosh) appearance. I have a fondness for males who have very girly or effeminate looks as well as those who may like to cross dress (especially as schoolgirls or nurses).

I am also interested in bi / straight females 28 – 45 with preferable a Goth or alternative appearance although this is certainly not a requirement.

For fun along the way - I am happy to play with males or females from the age of 18 upwards (i.e.: Uni / College students).

As well as Caucasians I am also quite interested in Chinese, Japanese, Indian or half-cast male and females.

When playing together I like to explore each other's fantasises, push our boundaries and expand our experiences. Play has to be sexual as well, "pain and pleasure" I have a good sexual appetite and there is very little I will not do or try.

My main bdsm interests: I like to switch and enjoy being top to sub males. I also like males who switch so I too can be abused. I would also like to play and be top or switch with females but this is something that I have not yet explored as I tend to be quite shy with girls at first. I should make it clear that I am not a Dom and never will be. I use pure and simple but very effective restraints.

My general bdsm / fetish interests are listed at the bottom of the page. I am open to new suggestions such as caging and suspension. I am not interested in medical play, needles, blood, or anything that will cause permanent damage.

Playtime: I am free most days or evenings throughout the year and can accommodate. I should add that 100% cleanliness is essential at all times. I would not play with anyone who is under the influence of alcohol or drugs while playing also smoking is never allowed inside my home). I like to be photographed with those taking part. I am very quiet when playing and I never play in clubs I also would certainly not be calling anyone Sir or Madam or grovelling at any Dom's feet (male or female) even in private. If you expect that from me I am sorry but please look elsewhere.

Clubs and Munches I visit:

Munches: Blackpool (Fylde & Wyre) also the Preston Munch and the Lancaster get-together. I have found at munches everyone is nice, friendly and very welcoming to new people.

Clubs: Visits to clubs are rare at the present time although I have been to “Beyond Bizarre” (BBB after Party) in Birmingham recently. I have also visited “Club Lash” in Manchester on several occasions. I also used to go to "Afterlife" and "Spankd" when they were open and I miss both these clubs. I also occasionally go to the "BBB"

I do not have a car but I am willing to share petrol and hotel room costs to visit clubs, etc.

New friends: Over the last four years by going to munches and clubs also by making contact on “IC” I have met many people and have found quite a few good new friends. I do not like to lose touch with nice people who I have either talked with on-line or met in real life including those I have played with. Those who I have lost touch with are always welcome to memo, email me, or meet up again if you wish too? Life is too short not to have fun together.

Memos / Chat: I only send memos to someone if I am genuinely interested in them. If you contact me and I am not interested I would of course let you know. Also if you contact me and you have no face photos on your profile I will ask you to email a few to me, if you are not prepared to send any please bare that in mind before contacting me. I am always quite happy to send you face photos.

I will occasionally memo males whose profiles may indicate they are straight as I have discovered that quite a few males who give that impression are in fact “bi” (but for various reasons they don't advertise the fact). If you are also unsure about your sexuality or "bi-curious" and wish to explore those feelings then I hope I can help you discover that "bi" is fun. My view is "That we are only here once, go for it"! Let's enjoy the pain and pleasure together.

I prefer to chat using "Windows Live Messenger" (msn) if possible, although I am quite happy to exchange memos on CM / IC. I am certainly not interested in any on-line friendships, relationships or play. I am interested in meeting you as a person and getting to know, socialise, play and hopefully become a friend (or partner) with you in real life. If possible I like to meet within a couple of weeks of us first contacting each other.

Turnoffs: Very short hair or shaved heads, but opposite down below I as dislike very hairy pupes (horrible! fully shaved or very trimmed please); People who are constantly texting, talking or playing with their mobile phones etc. while in my company – it's fucking rude; People that have no respect or have bad manners.

Interests: Top / bottom to men ....... Top / bottom to Women ....... Friendship with Men / Women ....... Relationship with Men / Women

Long hair (men) ....... Cross-Dressing (men) ....... Men with effeminate/girlish looks …… Men who wear makeup.

Boots (including NR/DM) ....... Converse All Star trainers ....... Over the knee socks

Latex ....... Leather ....... PVC ....... Rubber ....... School-room ....... Belts ....... Buckles ....... Straps ....... Studs ....... Zips

Bondage ....... Collars ....... Humiliation ....... Shackles & Chains ....... Role-playing ....... DS ....... SM ....... Open-Air BDSM .......

Caning ....... Flogging ....... Spanking ....... Hot Wax play ....... Pin wheels ...... Scratching ....... Tickling

Threesomes, or more (group play) ....... Watersports

Anal sex ....... Oral sex ....... Penetrative sex ....... Open-Air sex ....... Bukkake ....... Rimming .…… Snowballing ....... Spitting

Affection ....... Being together …… Cuddles ....... Hugs

Interests outside bdsm: Music: I like Indy, Gothic, Cyber, Industrial, Punk / New Wave and Progressive music including: • Deathstars • Marilyn Manson • Placebo • White Stripes • My Chemical Romance • Ailen Sex Fiend • Blondie • Siouxsie and the Banshees • The Stranglers • Art of Nosie • OMD • Ultravox • The Beatles also George Harrison & John Lennon • David Bowie • Pink Floyd • The Who

Television: I don't watch a lot of tv. My all time favourite programmes are "The Prisoner" (original 1967 series) and "Doctor Who" (old and new). I also like British detective series (i.e. Morse, Lewis, Midsomer Murders, Miss Marple and Poirot), I like to travel (not only in Great Britain but world wide); I enjoy good food; cooking; a decent pint of real ale; gardening, photography, fell walking and swimming.

.... and finally .... my age ..... I never give my age, although I am over 40. Don't ask me as I will not tell you, even those I have played with have never asked.

I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Gothian

MSN ID:Ask   Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Fair   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 11st 12lb   BMI: 23.6  

This profile was last updated on 8 Jan 12, 11:39 PM.

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