Ginger Kitten

IC Name: gin_gerkitten Joined: 10 Dec 2006 Last visit: 200 days ago Location: North East London, UK Age: 27

Hi, I'm GK.

I've recently arrived in London, and can't wait to explore the scene. I'm looking for friends, people with similar interests, and hopefully play partners. Be warned, I take things slowly, and need a lot of communication and IRL contact before I'll consider playing with anyone. But I'm always happy to chat on here, and to meet up and get to know people.

I play dom, sub or sudden unexpected switch. I learned to dom first, and I'm technically good at it, imaginative and responsive. I love subbing, it's a visceral passion and something I find I need every so often. I'm a bit minxy and disobedient when I sub, but being controlled and put in my place gives me a huge thrill. I can play swtch with the same person, or even within the same scene, and I enjoy that.

My gender status is curently in flux, which is where I like it. I'm biologically female, and about 70% male-identified. I spend most of my time presenting as male, 'passing' in public and exploring my gender identity. Within the scene, I am comfortable with female presentation too (see my pics) and often femme up as part of submission or for a night out.

I'm a genuine bisexual, not an experimental one. I was a lesbian first and got involved with men later. My current long-term lover, kittens_slut, and I are non-monogamous, and open to playing both individally and as a pair. He's a sub, and got me into the scene.

My fantasy setup is to find an older domme who wants a houseboy, and serve her. But I'm open to new experiences, so feel free to suggest things.

I'm a feminist, and I respect people, and expect to be respected. I'm not looking for people who don't understand and share this priority.

I've been doing a bit of writing on kink lately - linked here /plug

Ice-breaking facts - I love The Indelicates, Leonard Cohen, The Kinks, Johnny Cash, Billy Joel, Carole King, Ella Fitzgerald and eclectic indie music.

I read a LOT. I like Christopher Isherwood, Terry Pratchett, E M Forster, China Mieville, Margaret Atwood, Anita Diamant, Anthony Trollope, Hilary Mantel, and many others.

Hope to see you around!

GKxx

Eye colour: varies   Hair colour: varies   Height: 5ft 8in  

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