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Showing off my new shoes
IC Name:gigglewiggle
Joined:16 Apr 2008
Last visit:42 days ago
Sex/gender:Female
Location:Erith/Kent, UK
Age:35

As anyone peeking through my names may find, i have been through a few names here. i'm still me! i can only say that i'm a slave and when i give myself, i give all of me. That can include having my name changed. This name is quite special to me, actually. i want to thank Professor Tim and Mistress Nikki for my name. Thank you both so much! *hugs and wiggles just for you two* ;)

A bit about me...i am happily married. my husband is wonderful and even participates along with me. He attends munches and events, but just enjoys some aspects of the lifestyle compared to me. He's been the greatest husband any girl could even *hope* for. i want to thank him for being so special, caring, and loving to me. i hope to always make him happy.

i have been in the lifestyle for just over 5 years now. Before the lifestyle, i wasn't very happy with who i was, but now i feel i have found my place. For the longest time, i felt like something was missing. When i realised how submitting to someone more powerful made me happy, it was like my life finally made sense. i have always been submissive in my actions, i just needed someone to show me that i hadn't found my place, until now. Now i just need the right guide for my path. i know i will find the right Dominant eventually.

Through the wisdom of a former owner, i see my journey as something that is made up of different paths. Sometimes you will find bumps in that path. And as another former owner has said, those bumps can teach you more about life, yourself, and expectations than having the smoothest path of all.

For me, the lifestyle isn't all about how to get your next orgasm. It isn't about wearing the outfits. It's about so much more. Not that i don't *like* the sex or dressing up, far from it. It's just that's not where my focus tends to be. i focus more on pleasing, because that is where i get my pleasure, from bringing others pleasure. Even if it's making a cup of coffee or washing their dishes, them being pleased with my efforts makes me shine brighter than anything.

i tend to see the lifestyle as a huge jigsaw puzzle. It's made up of many pieces, but each puzzle piece has its part to complete the picture. Sex is a piece, but it's not the whole picture. There's trust, servitude, love, friendship, fun, pain, and so much more. There's even tears of joy and pain, because with the good we must take the bad. Servitude is the best life for someone like me that loves to please, but i know that it isn't easy. However, it is rewarding.

i wish you all well and thank you for reading (especially if you made it this far).

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 1in   Weight: 13st 12lb   BMI: 36.4  

This profile was last updated on 9 Aug 11, 3:38 PM.

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