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I've been striving to overcome my agoraphobic hermits syndrome with much determination. I'm slowly succeeding.

Anne Frank wrote: How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world...

• About me... I'm overdependent, over critical and overweight. I'm fiercely independent, judgemental, snobbish, open minded, reserved, prudish, generous, mean spirited, clingy and emotionally stunted. I dress like a scruff and have no fashion sense. I'm jealous and yet love to have another woman around (so long as I like her!) Who'd have me?!?! Luckily for me Bohnanza seems to be able to overlook most of these faults. I'm very grateful that he does.

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• Couple... I'm in a long term relationship with Bohnanza. We've been together since 2000 when I first got into this BDSM lark, and we both play with other people at clubs, parties or at home. We travel about together to BDSM/fetish events in both Scotland and England. It is pretty much our main social life - munches, clubs and friendships with people we've met through this.

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• Play I'd like to find a top or dominant to play with me occasionally at clubs or parties. For details, go here. Please note - I'm NOT looking for a sub. On the other hand, if I ask you if you'd like to play with me, I do mean it. It's probably taken me a lot of effort to get round to asking, there are only a few people I feel comfortable enough with to ask. But if I do ask, then I'm not going to keep asking, I'll assume you now know and will wait until you're ready.

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• Lifestyle... I don't smoke. Most of the time I drink seldom and not much. Every now and again I drink too much, throw all my clothes off and snog everyone in the room....or something like that! I mostly can't be bothered with make-up, although I try sometimes, and don't spend fortunes on hairdressers. I do like to dress up when we go to a club. I eat widely (and far too much) and enjoy going out for a meal with friends. I've also found I get lots of pleasure from having people round for dinner, drinks, chat, parties, sploshing, barbecues, girlie nights etc etc! Anyone for an orgy?

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• Books... I read. I read voraciously and widely, and although I tend to prefer fantasy type books I'll read almost anything, except horror. I read in bed, at work, in the bath, in front of the television and when travelling. I can read more than one book at once without getting the stories mixed up ~ WOW! I have a list of some of my books here. I shall be adding the rest bit by bit when I get round to it.

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• I like ... : Punctuality - Confidence - Large hands on men - Red hair on women - Tall men - Plump curvy women - Visible affection - Spontaneity - Good timekeeping - People who can make me laugh - Kissing! I don't get enough of it. - Sex - Good food -

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• I dislike... - Poor personal hygiene - Smoking - Excessive drinking (unless it's me!) - People who eat with their mouth open - Tailgating - Rudeness - Bullying - Beetroot - Housework! -

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• My Network... My "real life" network consists only of people I have met in real life. Some I know well, others I have met and spoken to once, most are somewhere in between. Being on my network says nothing about how I feel about someone, I won't take people off my network just because I don't like them and I will add them, if asked, whether I like them or not. - ALL I am vouching for is that I have met each of them to speak to, and when I did, they were a real life living breathing person, and not a made up online only ID!

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• Interests... I've added the list of interests below, more as a way of showing what I am interested in, rather than enticing anyone to demand that I do any of these things. I'm part of a couple and although we do play with other people, I'm just as happy to have someone else join in when we play together.