IC Name: gentlearts Joined: 16 Oct 2011 Last visit: 2 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 46

I'm London based and in mid 40's and have discovered "something" is missing. I have always enjoyed the erotic, sensuality of ritual (by that I mean not just the d/s but also the wonder of exploration with someone at locations both historic and mystical, if that makes sense).

I am dominant by nature, in that I like to take control, and I love to be the one leading a partner through all the sensations of pleasure and pain. I am not into heavy sadism, preferring instead the light touch - stroking, gentle spanking that increases in intensity, blindfolding whereby total trust is handed to me, and pushing boundaries. I enjoy bondage, but have to confess I've not had that much experience. Role play and fantasy play are high up on my list of enjoyments and in these I am experienced.

I am a very creative person and love inventing scenarios together, as I honestly believe that two (dirty) minds are better than one! Writing is a great passion of mine and I love developing story lines that take us further down that path of discovery.

I am looking to meet like minded friends who share my belief that this can be a spiritual journey but who also seeks thatnsecret place where, to quote Oasis, nobody knows if it's night or day!

I don't take myself, or things, that seriously and a do have an offbeat sense of humour that sometimes causes me to say the wrong thing at the wrong time, or even the right thing at the wrong time and sometimes the wrong thing at the right time.

In the vanilla world I have diverse interests. I love to read and enjoy walking. I enjoy film and theatre and like dining out a bit too much. if you share similar likes I'd love to say hello.

If you like to laugh, explore, create and understand the mysticism of the kinky and the erotic then it would be nice to say hello even if it's just to enjoy a chat or two or possibly even free.

Finally, I am always respectful and well mannered so please don't be offended if I don't refer to you as b***ch or order you to call me sir at first. I love the dirty chat but would prefer to get to know you first before reciting the poetry and prose of kink! Exit stage right.

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour:  Brown   Height: 5ft 7in   Weight: 10st 9lb   BMI: 23.2  

This profile was last updated on 30 Oct 11, 12:06 PM.

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