40++ 5'5" fatter than I want to be; thinner than you just imagined, long dark hair, blue eyes, dress sense, sense of humour, wit, charm, tact, diplomacy, loyal, honest, single, yaaaaawwwwwwwwwnnnnnn : fully paid up member of the Church of the Good Time Girl : cynical, jaded, more vulnerable than you might imagine, ~ and great legs ~>= so I'm told

my pleasure to give, bring and receive pleasure

sometimes I get caught and sometimes I get copied

Unfit, unsporty, unencumbered by young children ~ ~ ~ Congenitally late, but not cavalier about it.

Looking for ...... the dream of course! Settling for good friends, good times and good humour. No expectations, no disappointments, enjoying the precious present. Also remember 'sub' = submissive not subservient, 'Dom' = Dominant not domineering. Courtesy and respect get you a long way. Making me laugh, lusting after my body, being possessed of education, wit and charm [and being a seriously good snog] get you even further.

Compliments always grabbed greedily with both hands and stuffed into the bag of comforting things to remember when I feel like hell. Bring 'em on, I can cope. Saving them up for my dotage to have young care assistants glance at each other in plain disbelief while I declare I was once a sex goddess.

Not remotely interested in 1-2-1's with married/partnereds: We could get to be real-life friends if we meet at the LAM LFF BBB or some other TLA fair, munch or club, otherwise please don't waste your time. Howeverrrrrrrr, if you are 6foot or over, slim, solvent, sardonic, with a penchant for wee fat wifies, here I am. If you are interesting, I'll be interested, if you're not interested in me, then why the hell are you still reading this?

If I have to be labelled, I am a switch. An effective dominant, a bloody difficult but worthwhile submissive. Mostly I'm just a very real person: too much of me to be one-dimensional.

the name: foxxx: 6 strokes, 3 kisses : no y or "eh"

Best places for foxxx hunting currently reduced due to work constraints but ....

EVERY month London Alternative Market and whenever possible, Sweet Torments

Every OTHER month or so PSssST! Spanking/CP Socials - next date February 7th 2009

Otherwise take your chances at Aylesbury Munch Watford Munch * LoveTrix * Hades/Dark *

I am a libertarian, hedonist, sybarite, oppose censorship and support Backlash

what They said about me

Dominalush wrote: what really made it (LAM) for me was the "girls-on-top" workshop given by Foxxx(the Dominant)Volcanic sparks(the sadist....now that was a suprise lol)and Firemynx(the sub who can top) Foxxx, who looked her usual,divine,sexy self(how does that bloody woman keep her stocking seams in a straight line?)explained that being dominant is not the same as being domineering,she NEVER shouts or barks orders,and how the POWER is what its about. ~ All this wisdom delivered whilst stood on a decidely rickety stool in stillettos!!the woman amazes me!

Gabby wrote: I do think you are looking for a TIH relationship and I really don't think you would ultimately be happy with a sub, although the attention and flattery would please at first. As for 'presenting as a sub' why not just present as you, funny, beautiful, talented, intelligent, interesting, simply complicated, switchy witch that you are, and be open about your wishes. You never know.

I forget now wrote: I love your creativity and elegance in your clothing. You are incredibly feminine and that is pretty rare these days. Very classy indeed

Buzz wrote: great company, great playmate, ... the list goes on

ll_2ndSkin_ll wrote: You're one of the level headed sensible people it's always a pleasure to bump into, plus, you're always smiling - which is lovely

What I say about me

what really matters is to be ENJOYED! Real power exchange, not the demanding children of "Dom" and "sub"

If what you are looking for is an instant submissive, then I am unlikely to fit into the tick-box you built.

I've found several RESTART buttons and pressed them all. A diamond girl, multi-faceted and what sparkles depends on which facet is turned up to reflect which kind of light

I like ........

rainbows; dancing like no-one is watching; dressing up; acting out; fabulous food, champagne, good wine, arid martinis, riding my 'bike and bike rallies though I've not been to one since forever; gossiping, travelling, visiting people, learning new things, cathedrals, stone circles, theatre, reading (everything except fluffy romances & westerns) writing (love language and playing with it), films (especially Mike Leigh, Tarantino, Polanski) - and HATS, and FFS and having them admired

Oh, and everything you didn't want to know about Aylesbury is here