On a warehouse roof in Hackney Wick, where I live

IC Name: fights_back Joined: 21 Aug 2008 Last visit: 7 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 31 Website: http://twitter.com...

I'm alternative looking, short, and usually found behind a camera or a computer. I work as a webmaster/creative mind for a gay SM pornsite. No I do not star in the porn. Stop asking me that.

I create. I do freelance design (graphic design, web design - any design!) when I have the time (and believe me, it takes time) and sometimes I write. But most of the time I just draw people (sketching and life drawing), and I take a lot of photos (people again!).

I consume. I do a massive variety of reading - zillions of daily blogs mostly, as well as interesting novels and also a lot of gender/feminist/queer books too. And I love, love, love the theatre.

My main passion, however, is inline skating. I go literally everywhere on them - I'm faster than buses, bikes and even cars (in most parts of London)! I pretty much live in my blades - not only a 10 mile daily commute all year round, but also tons of night streetskates and even inline marathons. If you are into skating, we are going to get along just great - I'd love some kinky blading buddies.

...and what do you want?

To cut to the chase, I'm all about sex and play. Preferably both. I am a very sexual person, and I am most happy around people of either gender with an active interest in the dynamics and discussion of sexuality and relationships.

I'm in a long term open relationship with a hot geek dude, and used to identify as gay. I'm very much into girls now though.

What's hot and what's not?

(Feel free to skip this bit because it's purely self indulgent wank! Unless you are planning to seduce me and you're looking for tips. In which case, this will probably be very helpful.)

I don't have a 'type' as such, although obviously there does have to be a physical attraction there in the first place. But I love to have a willing girl under my control, to be able to play with her, tease her, hurt her, tie her up, make her come, and use her body for my own nefarious ends. I'm sadistic... and if you're into submission, I take charge and run with it. I get off on it. It's hot.

• Bows on girls. Especially bows on stocking tops, on bums, in hair, on cleavages - hell, anywhere. This is probably my most vanilla kink and I don't know where it came from! But it's mad hot and I will probably hit on you if you wear bows around me, so be warned.
• Spanking. I love this so much. It doesn't matter what your pain tolerance is, because hey - I just get off so much on seeing girls wriggling and whimpering in pain, whether it takes 5 light swats or 50 hard ones.
• Tickling. This I am absolutely mad for, because it's so exquisitely horny. It's a way of getting the most extreme pain like reactions without causing any damage whatsoever. The way girls scream, cry and beg when being tickled (in between helpless laughter) makes me hard in the pants. If you've never tried it, feel free to offer yourself up. I'll attempt to show you what all the fuss is about.
• Giving head. To girls and boys alike. I live for this. So much fun. Did I mention I have a split tongue? And no real gag reflex?
• Face slapping. Need I say more? This is the best thing ever.
• Choking and Violence. I like rough sex. Do not get with me if you are a delicate flower. I am small, but I can probably break you.
• I do particularly like plenty of other things, including belts, hairpulling, snogging, needle play, putting things in mouths, making girls beg, and feet, but hey - it's more interesting to try them out in person and see if you like them too. Muahaha.

I prefer not to do play without (eventual) sex - to me, that's like cooking a meal and not eating it.

I tell my partners everything. If you've never experienced the poly dynamic before, you're welcome to ask questions - I'm happy to talk about it.

I'm filthy, massively sexual (which is part of the reason I'm in an open relationship) and very enthusiastic. It's as simple as that. Ask me anything.

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: grey   Height: 5ft 5in   Weight: 9st 3lb   BMI: 21.3  

This profile was last updated on 28 Apr 12, 1:33 PM.

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