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IC : Profiles : fen_fatale
| Profile: | fen_fatale |
| Created on: | 17 May 2004 |
| Last visit: | 4 hours ago |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | Cambs (The Fens) |
| Sex/gender: | Female |
| Homepage: | http://fensnapz.re... |
| Age: | 34 |
| Hair colour: | Blonde |
| Eye colour: | Blue |
| Height: | 5ft 4in |
| Ad title: | Seeking single Male Photographer Dom. |
| Sex/gender wanted: | Male | | Ad updated: | 53 days ago |
~*~ Me ~*~
I am – a happy and cheerful, single, sane and independent submissive woman. I am always seen with a smile on my face, and I love to laugh and have fun. I am a pretty large lady, but i prefer the term Reubenesque or 'comfy to bounce on' rather than BBW!
I am very very shy, and this leads me to giggle and blush a lot and be quite quiet conversationally when I first meet people and i do not like to be the centre of attention in any way.
In my free time; my passion is photography, I primarily shoot landscapes, but recently have started taking portraits and doing more adult shots: If you would like to see my pics, the homepage should redirect you.
I swim and like to walk: but not uphill! after living in the Fens my calf muscles are only suited for walking on flat ground and I have a tendency to get altitude sickness when I mount a kerb.
I like classical music but my favourite band is Marillion.
I own my own house and car, I work and have two active children, who are away most weekends.
(Time for a nickname clarification because I am getting ticked off with being thought of as being a bit blonde and simple! I live just on the outskirts of the Fens, (The flat wetlands of East Anglia) The name is a pun of the word Femme Fatale. So, I truly do not need a lesson in how to spell it, or another wikipedia link on what a femme fatale is.)
~*~ The Bdsm part ~*~
I am naturally and only submissive.
I have been actively involved in the 'real life' BDSM lifestyle for about 10 years, and online for longer. I have been aware of my 'different' inclinations since i was about 6 years old and have had various levels of experience from bottom, sub to 24/7 slave and yes in the time i have been in this scene i have experienced and tried it all. But i now identify far more as a submissive/slave than a masochist/bottom and prefer a Ds dynamic to an s&m based relationship. I will only act within the bounds of consensuality and will not ever accept violence as being acceptable within my relationship. I have no baggage, no issues, and no past traumas that i need to recreate, and nothing at all to prove, i will respect and expect to be respected back. Given the right man - i will offer him the entire world and try to give him more. I am not a doormat: i am a human who happens to have a natural respect for Dominant (but not domineering or controlling) men and i will demonstrate this around you at all times. I am not a brat, not a trophy and not immature, and as such i have no time for role playing or silly whimsical "you must be punished" games. If you have ever known or appreciated a natural, genuine submissive woman then you will understand what i mean.
I am now totally out of the public scene and lifestyle and it is increasingly unlikely that you will see me at events anymore. I feel that i have nothing in common now with half of the new people coming into the scene, and i am sadly disillusioned with it all, i feel that the lifestyle has totally lost its focus and its direction, has become too political based and cliquey. i hold the tenets of BDSM as = honour, integrity, empathy, mutual respect, community, safety, sanity and above all - consensuality.
With regards to relationships, i am finding that i am increasingly busy and bogged down with life at present, and am starting to reconsider whether i have the actual time for a relationship, or even whether the scene holds what i want anymore, whilst i would love someone to be intimate with, to look up to, look after and cuddle, i can't even seem to find the time to answer memos or have an msn conversation! Real Life is taking over.
However, If... i had the time, then i would be looking for a clinically sane, single, Dominant Male, someone roughly aged between 30 and 45, give or take a couple of.. (but not 20) years, for a monogamous relationship.
So, ideally - Johnny Depp, 6ft, Dominant, dressed as a Vampire in Old English finery, with long hair and a goattee, with impeccable manners, charm and charisma, a cracking sense of humour, a love of children, a respectable job, a passion for photography, a black belt in Shotokan Karate, self assured, faithful and honest, who can play the piano and adores only me.... hmmm
Not asking for much really there then! (methinks i could die single!)
It is something of a cliché now, but the sentiment is so true. | Anais Nin ~ I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding. |
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