Me	IC Name: fen_fatale Joined: 17 May 2004 Last visit: 17 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: South Cambridgeshire , UK Age: 37

Is this you...

• A Photographer? (Landscape photography preferable!)
• A Dom? (But... not a sadist, not nasty, not demanding, not a control freak or into the public scene, You don't take BDSM too seriously? (i.e you can take it or leave it in favour of more interesting and less insane activities?)
• Monogamous
• Single? (as in completely, totally and only single, this is completely inflexible.)
• Sane?
• Size tolerant?
• Intelligent?
• Honest?
• Have your own home?
• Have your own car?
• Don't own either a rotweiller or motorbike?
• Tolerant of and kind to children and little dogs?
• Essential body parts: non-plastic, functional and present? (eyes, teeth, brain etc)
• You do not own a leather waistcoat or flogger utility belt or display photos of your 'kit' on your profile?
• A good cook?
• Charming and charismatic?
• Good conversationalist?
• Assertive - but not arrogant?
• Respectable? Respectful to me as well as others?
• Mature, yet still demonstrating a great sense of humour and know how to have fun?
• Harbour a deep rooted belief that you were born in the wrong century?

If that sounds like you (or because I am flexible.. you can confirm at least 20 of those) and you actually do exist outside of my vivid imagination... then please do feel free to contact this very non-demanding <cough> and fickle sub.

I have recently started contemplating dipping my toe back into the water, after a rather long break, but it holds a very very low priority in my life, So if BDSM is as important to you as breathing, then I really will not be the type of person you are wanting, so it wouldn't be worth your while to memo me. I have been involved in the scene for well over 10 years, and used to live and breath it myself, I have a huge amount of experience and have been to several clubs, munches and experienced most things, but they hold as much interest for me now as stamp collecting, and my thresholds are now very low, for tolerance of pain and people. Treat me with respect in your communications with me and I will treat you with respect back I am not a masochist or a bottom, just a submissive so not really interested in the whole spank my arse with a range of homemade implements scenario. For me it is about the mind, service and care. So, what I am looking for here on IC is a friend primarily, someone who will be happy to chill out and enjoy one anothers company on an adhoc basis, but it would help if you were single just in case on the offchance any kind of feelings start to develop, ideally with this in mind it would probably be good if you were roughly in the same age range as myself, give or take a few years... so 33 - 43?

I don't think.. when you break it down, that I am asking for anything too extreme, it may sound like a lot, but it is just fairly comprehensive and saves messing around later It does also give a big hint if you then ask in the first couple of memos "what are you looking for?" that you aren't the kind of person I seek either as you clearly didn't get this far in my profile!

"I might not be the most beautiful, or the sexiest, nor do I have the perfect body. I might not be everyone's first choice, but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not: because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past... but I am not ashamed either. I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away!"

Thanks for reading.

Addendum: I don't like this whole "what it is that we do" acronym, I don't associate my views or actions with those of many on here. I personally do not feel that the whole 'ultraviolence' thing is part of genuine BDSM so if this is what rocks your socks... please just pass me by. My bdsm is legal, safe, sane and above all else consensual to myself and anyone around me, and I entirely disassociate myself from anyone who acts in either an insane, illegal or non-consensual way.

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Reddish   Height: 5ft 4in  

This profile was last updated on 24 Jan 12, 9:18 PM.

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