I still regard myself as new to BDSM but I'm certain of my likes. Experience has taught me I like dirty, filthy play (cyber and otherwise) and a by no means exclusive list of interests would include: leather, boots, restraints, inflicting pain upon the helpless, leashes, humiliation, voyeurism, dirty talk, handcuffs, the sound of the sharp intake of breath when the fun starts...

Currently, I'd defintely like to explore cyber experiences more - I've had some experience and would like to taste a little more.

I don't consider myself a 'scene player' because BDSM is something I do and not what I am - in other words I don't want to be defined by it (or by anything else for that matter), which I guess makes me a little out of step with others on IC. Oh well...!

Oh, and also no men please. No offence and all that, but I'm not interested! Seemed to have quite a few men sending me memos recently for some reason.

Vanilla wise my career is very important and as such keep my two lives very seperate.

Ex_B_V