1 Feb 2012

IC Name: epona74 Joined: 28 Nov 2004 Last visit: 10 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Earth, mostly, UK Age: 38

Changes occurring, life is amazing and fabulous! I'm very lucky to have some extremely special people in my life, who help to make my life so.

Some of the things that help define me:

I Bruise Easily

Wild Horses

If I Were Brave

I'm most definitely NOT looking, the stuff below is simply being kept for posterity! Friends are welcome, but don't be surprised if we don't necessarily get on...I'm a bit of an oddball and very happy that way!

Well, if we start with my kinky side (this is a BDSM website after all), then I'm a female submissive/bottom. I bottom to close friends only, not to random strangers. This is to keep myself safe as well as needing a connection with someone before I can relax enough to enjoy play! Please don't be offended if I don't play with you because I don't know you well enough-get to know me and you never know, that might change!

I do have a reasonable amount of experience, but am still very much finding my way, especially with the D/s side. I will not submit to just anyone, this is reserved for someone very special indeed!

I'm sometimes shy, I find crowds difficult, and can get insecure about things, but I'm also self confident, assertive, and honest. I genuinely don't understand game playing, and I don't do the manipulation thing. If I want something, I'll ask for it-be that a hug, a beating or pretty much anything else. I'm tactile, I love cuddles, and am tactile with friends as well as in a relationship. I'm self aware, having done a LOT of work on myself over the past several years. If any of this is something that would disturb you, you're likely to be intimidated by me. I may be submissive (and I am...very), but I'm not going to be a doormat! I have a sense of humour, and I'll use it. I have my own opinion, and I'll voice it. But I don't brat-though the border between the two may be thin sometimes!

In general, I'm self employed and LOVE my job, I have a horse and a dog, and a lot of friends. My time is precious, and I love my life!

About you

Although I'm comfortable with my life as it is, I would like to find a dominant partner for a relationship. Although essentially monogamous, I'm not entirely averse to a poly situation, as long as there is enough time for me to feel special and cared about in my own right.

Must have: capable of interaction socially without relying on drink or drugs to “make the night”. I don't mind a couple of glasses of wine to relax, but when the night becomes about the alcohol, it's no longer viable for me. A naturally dominant aura, without being arrogant or stupid about it. Someone who can be my friend as well as my dominant and my lover. Someone who will explain what they want, what I need to do, and will take the time to explain when I get it wrong (after all, I'm human!), and correct. Someone capable of discussion when things go wrong. Someone who can get into my mind, and enjoy the journey as much as the destination! Someone who is self sufficient emotionally as well as physically. Who isn't going to rely on me for every ounce of happiness in their life-that's too much responsibility to put on one person! Someone with their own interests as well as some shared ones! Someone willing to learn and grow! Someone with an energy that feels comfortable to me!

Would like to have: A butch dyke, or someone with a mix-up of male and female energies tends to be where my attention goes. That's not to say I can't appreciate a lovely femme too, but it's generally the butch ones that get my juices flowing! Skill with singletails and other impact toys is important, but can always be learned. An interest in self growth would be good as that's where a lot of my energy goes! An interest in animals would be good as I spend a lot of time with mine! As I'm spiritual rather than religious, sharing that might be nice-though far from a prerequisite! And if I had to draw my ideal dominant, they'd be taller than me...lol but I'm realistic on that one

I'm not going to just settle for anyone. I'm going to be incredibly picky, because this is my life, and I want it to be “perfect” (disclaimer: I'm more than aware that things go wrong in life and we can't always be happy, but that doesn't mean I have to settle for something that will never be ideal). I want someone to share my life with, not someone who will become my life!

Friends

New friends are always welcome! No preferences on gender, sexual preference, age, dynamic, whatever! If we get on, we'll be friends!

And a vital article on what happens to us when we play, and how our biology is affected http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/dictionary/Afte... If you aren't willing to help me deal with the aftereffects (and have me help you with yours if you are affected) then you are not the right person to play with me!

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Blonde   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 12st 2lb   BMI: 24.9  

This profile was last updated on 1 Feb 12, 7:18 PM.

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