reward for service :)

IC Name: englishh Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Last visit: 2 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: northwest/midlands, UK Age: 61

Hi everyone, thanks for reading this. I am a bit of a Dr Jekyll Dom and Mr Hyde sub. I have recently come to the conclusion that the sub in me may be the true me that needs expression and an outlet, but I keep being drawn to intelligent femsubs! This may be because my normal approach to life is assertive and dominant, and i have this inner craving to leave that aside and explore the possibilities of allowing Another to take control, or even Them just taking it against my will, but my normal dominant ways will keep surfacing.

I am married, and all my D/s activities are discrete. I have stated this up front as I know this puts off some, but hopefully not all, and I believe in total honesty. Because of this I have not posted a picture, but will send one to anyone who memos me.

I can offer intelligence, stimulation, a liking of good food and fine wine, and a loyal and trustworthy personality. I cannot offer a full time relationship. I also believe that people can only have a successful D/s relationship if they would also be friends without the D/s.

I am 60, and partly retired. I have some D/s experience, and enjoy good hotels. I enjoy play at clubs and parties, as well as in private. Control by e-mail and text can also be fun. Imagination is everything.

My posts and weblogs will give you some idea about me, although I don't post much personal stuff there.

Apologies about all the "I's", but that is to tell you all about me, hope that helps.

I recently came across the following quote and I think it sums up my attitudes to D/s

"Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that's so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you."

P.S. The alternative name "DesperateDom" does not really describe me but came about through a chat room joke. Blame MsShania. mmmmmmmm, feed me cow pie

Eye colour: green   Hair colour: not a lot   Height: 6ft   Weight: 14st 1lb   BMI: 26.5  

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