I am married, and all my D/s activities are discrete. I have stated this up front as I know this puts off some, but hopefully not all, and I believe in total honesty. Because of this I have not posted a picture, but will send one to anyone who memos me.

I can offer intelligence, stimulation, a liking of good food and fine wine, and a loyal and trustworthy personality. I cannot offer a full time relationship. I also believe that people can only have a successful D/s relationship if they would also be friends without the D/s.

I am 56, recently retired, and was previously an education professional. I have some D/s experience, and enjoy good hotels. I enjoy play at clubs and parties, as well as in private. Control by e-mail and text can also be fun. Imagination is everything.

I chat on yahoo as englishharry3 (englishharry got wiped out by yahell) and on bondage.com, paltalk and msn as englishharry. You can reach me by e-mail on englishharry@hotmail.com, and i won't shout if you add me to msn or yahell.

My posts and weblogs will give you some idea about me, although I don't post much personal stuff there.

Apologies about all the "I's", but that is to tell you all about me, hope that helps.

I recently came across the following quote and I think it sums up my attitudes to D/s

"Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that's so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you."

Breaking news: The alternative name "DesperateDom" does not really describe me but came about through a chat room joke. Blame MsShania. mmmmmmmm, feed me cow pie