Who do you think you are?

IC Name: doulos Joined: 20 Mar 2005 Last visit: 16 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Central London, UK Age: 26

Did you ever have the feeling as you were growing up that you weren't really changing, but the adults around you were getting a little less authoritative and more juvenile? Then suddenly you realise that you are the adult, and everyone is just working it out as they go along. That's me anyway. For me sexuality, in its essence, is just adults at play. Play that too many people keep to the bedroom and a few dance moves in nightclubs.

I live with my beautiful and wonderful girlfriend and mistress, Queen_dom, in South West London. We go out to munches and clubs occasionally, and hang out with a number of people from IC.

We play with other people now and then, sometimes together but often separately. I have also explored my dominant side a bit and would be delighted to chat and meet submissive women who would be interested in occasional play, particularly involving bondage, humiliation and a little SM. Especially fond of things like strait-jackets. We have one with which I have both been a victim and a top. You really can't escape it, it's great!

My strengths when taking a dominant role lie in patience, honesty and creativity, rather than particular techniques. Don't expect miraculous ropework! In a playmate, I look for people who are clever, funny, engaging with a similarly perverse view of sex, or whatever it is kink is about.

About me: Still young, slim and 'cute' but can turn devilish given the right context. I have dark brown hair and eyes, and a slightly dark complexion. My girlfriend calls me "blondie", cos I am still a bit lighter than her, and she wishes I thought about things a bit less. I have a posh voice - I am not sure where exactly I got it from, perhaps too much Radio 4.

I am a also bit of a geek. I think one of the greatest ever television tragedies was when Firefly got cancelled. My taste in fetish clothing (especially PVC and leather) probably comes from watching too many borg-themed episodes in Startrek when I was young. I went to Slimelight a little while ago and fell in love with the gothic clothing (struggle to get their music, though).

I have a couple of degrees in some fairly impractical subjects. I am quite sensible, even straight-laced in a lot of my 'ordinary' life and work, which contrasts with my more anarchic sexuality. My work means that it is best to keep images of me a little bit seperate from this profile.

Also quite like hip-hop/rap and have a few Jay-Z and Dr Dre albums. Rap is the best contemporary poetry. When dancing (which is occasionally), I usually opt for trance/techno if its an option but RnB is cool too.

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 5in  

This profile was last updated on 29 Dec 11, 12:11 AM.

(Please read the cautions on About Personal Ads before responding to an advert. In particular, "Flat 51, 17 Holywell Hill, St Albans, AL1 1DT" is a mailbox address used by a persistent scam artist.)