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Profile:	delaquoi
Created on:	25 May 2009
Last visit:	3 days ago
Country:	UK
Location:	Warwick
Sex/gender:	Male
Homepage:	http://anarcoperve...
Age:	34
Hair colour:	black
Eye colour:	brown
Weight:	10st 13lb
Height:	5ft 11in
BMI:	21.2
Sex/gender seeking:	Male or Female or MtoF or FtoM or Not Stated
Ad title:	rebel pervert
Ad updated:	42 days ago

I switch, I like all kinds of things, SM for me is experimentation, being subversive with bodies and scenes, perverting the everyday, inventing strange new pleasures, exposing hang-ups and turning them into filthy thrills. It's a game, which doesn't mean it's not serious. Theatre, roleplaying, telling stories, fucking about with age play, messing with gender roles, social roles, economic exploitation. Though it certainly doesn't always have to be complicated -- I do love a good old fashioned spanking (giving and receiving) and some hard fucking (giving and receiving, too). I love tears, tenderness, and nastiness (devil mummies, twisted babygirls). And touch, and skins, and bodies, and sighs. Mainly I'm drawn to the female gender, but trans people and some males can get me going too.

I'm non-monogamous, in principle and in practice. I'm looking for play partners, and sometimes play partners can become life partners too -- but I want to build love and commitment on affinity and freedom, not possession. I think the best thing to do with jealousy is turn it into a delicious nasty psychodrama and pervert it away.

SM aside, I'm an activist and I'm rather intellectual, into politics, and bodypolitics, and philosophy and poetry and other supposedly serious things. (Though if we can't play dirty sexgames then i don't want any part of your revolution.) Also I want to learn to grow vegetables (maybe one day set up a pervaculture sex-farm commune?) and to speak more languages. I don't expect my lovers to have read loads of books or to share all my political beliefs (though if you're accepting of fascism in any shape or form then we certainly won't get along). What's important is to be open-minded, playful, non-possessive.

Some more thoughts and fantasies (from the not-so-secret secret society of anarcoperverts to which i belong):

http://www.anarcopervertismo.blogspot.com

This profile was last updated on 4 Feb 10, 3:50 PM

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