.	IC Name: dedicated_kitty Joined: 5 Apr 2009 Last visit: 23 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: LN (Lincoln), UK Age: 29

I want to be swept off my feet – what female doesn't? I want to prove all the things that people tell me don't exist, do in fact exist.

I've been here a couple of years now, but despite that I'm still reasonably new to this. I'm much more comfortable with what it is that I want now, it still changes from time to time, I'm contradictory like that I guess, but mostly it stays the same. I'm best suited to a traditional relationship. I like structure, boundaries and to follow. I'm quite stereotypically female in my traits, if there is such a thing anymore. I'm attracted to a man who is gentlemanly, respectful and confident in who he is.

I take some time to feel comfortable and trust people. That hopefully isn't something that shows but genuinely letting my guard down definitely doesn't happen overnight.

I'm a positive and happy person, more in a quietly content way rather than loud and excitable. I like to make people feel good and hopefully I'm quite good at that and I'm often told that I have a calming influence. Like everyone I love to laugh. I'm giggly, sometimes that might be a sub-conscious attempt to hide my shyness, but most of the time it's because I just find most things amusing.

I love affection, giving and receiving. I like nothing more than cuddles, touches and kisses. It's something I could never ever have enough of. Unfortunately I could never be compatible with someone who's distant and uncomfortable with my need for attention and my desire to give it.

I'm looking for a dominant man, a switch isn't for me. Someone who is in their 30's, possibly 40's. I'm not suited to a long-distance relationship, I don't want someone who I can only see once a month. I'm looking for a relationship, not meeting up for play. I'm monogamous and want the same from a partner.

I would describe my personality as quite submissive generally, however I don't appreciate someone thinking they are entitled to make demands of me when they have no right. So treat me with respect and you will get it back in return, because unless I've decided otherwise then I'm you're equal, regardless of what you might think.

Please, please, please believe me when I say I don't want to talk about what turns me on or what the dirtiest thing I've done is, or any other equally sleazy burning question you might have. Getting to know you will be my priority, and I'd hope getting to know me will be yours, so the other stuff can be left for later.

Before I'd arrange to meet someone I'd want to see at least one picture, obviously I'm prepared to do the same. If this will be a problem for you then I'm sorry.

Thank you for reading.

A few things I've written……

In the Heat of the Moment - http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/269942/

The Memento - http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/256606

Strung Up - http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/248061/

Burning Desire (continuation of Strung Up) - http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/249537/

Untitled - http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/241157/

A Lesson Learnt - http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/241153/

A first but probably not a last - http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/241155/

Eye colour: Green   Hair colour: Brown  

This profile was last updated on 18 Jan 12, 4:20 PM.

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