We are a couple who discovered that she likes to be submissive and he likes to be dominant. How lucky is that?! These leanings were lurking inside us and we only discovered it when we started talking about fantasies one night a couple of years ago and hey presto, the genie was out of the bottle. We were drinking wine at the time so perhaps that isn't such a bad analogy!

We consider ourselves lucky because we are very much in love and we have a vanilla relationship which works really well for us. BDSM is recreation for us, not a lifestyle, not sure we have the time to make it our lifestyle, vanilla life gets in the way of that. It seems that you need a mission statement for everything these days so our BDSM mission is 'More & Better Orgasms'.

Our list of interests is always expanding and we are always up for trying something new. We wonder if we have time to try it all? We certainly will make time to be at clubs whenever we can.

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