30 Apr 2012

IC Name: custardpowder Joined: 3 Sep 2011 Last visit: 41 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: CB (Cambridge), UK SLRN: 522-760-861

I am a Submissive in training to be a Slave, although I consider myself a natural Dominant with women and a natural Sub with the right man, whom I have now. I will never visit here again. I have more than I could ever possibly handle already in my Master, now it's up to me to stretch the envelope until it creaks, slowly, under its own weight and that of passion, fire, blood, sweat, tears, commitment, red and white hot rage and fury and the good old-fashioned base metals of trust and love.

I will be my Master's personal, and no-one else's.

My Master is @Dickon.

I don't have any self-esteem issues, but a particular love for and of the English language... I is with a capital I, and He is with a capital H. In all matters other than the unequal, we are equal

A small expansion on the above, we have a S/M relationship which is sometimes (almost) equal and sometimes more than equal on either side, a friendship which is 100% equal, and a D/S relationship which is far from equal. We are also lovers, which can be as equal or unequal as the day is long. But He is my Master.

I'm a natural Masochist and blessed to meet another who will dish out both His and my 'favourites'

That said, I would like to explore my equally natural Dominant side, with other like-minded Sisters, with Master at the helm, or to sometimes play alone with a drinking-buddy Sister whose tears I will create and dry and return with the same.

I guess that makes me a Switch... lucky me!

My priorities here, though, are to learn from and with the Community and to offer any advice I may be able to give. I am a strong will, I don't cyber, I don't text sex, I'm not interested in webcam 'sessions' (!) The sexual side of BDSM is of little interest to me, as is sex in general. I'm certainly more interested in the psychological. This part is really important, a lot obviously don't get this far or just don't even skim-read. Please, I don't want a male slave, really I don't! I can't help you there, the top part of this profile (no pun!) says that.

I'm intelligent, sometimes witty, sometimes smart, sometimes silly, often 3 years old and always modest. I can knit, embroider, crochet, write, read and create mayhem. I can sing but I don't dance, I can understand some foreign tongues but not speak or write them. I'm trustworthy, I'm honest, I'm a stickler for good manners and written and unwritten rules, although I've broken the written ones many times. The unwritten ones are more important. Protocol is important to me, offence can be avoided by good manners and pertinent queries and questions, I'm not shy but I am courteous.

Friends within the Community are always welcomed with open arms, regardless of persuasion / s. I am struggling with my own sexuality and gender issues on a daily basis.

Thank you for reading, please call me Sister in conversation.

"All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of thing shall be well." Saint Julian of Norwich

Thanks for the quote @UncleKev

http://lauragoodwin.org/laura.html

http://lauragoodwin.org/sam.htm

http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/....

http://scousedictionary.blogspot.com/

http://24carat.co.uk/scousedictionaryframe.html

http://www.soundcomparisons.com/Eng/Direct/Engli....

Some things that are expensive: Platinum, Gold, Diamonds.

Some things that are free: Please, Thank you, Sorry.

Some things that are priceless: Loyalty, Honesty, Dignity.

Some things that are worthless: Liars, Cheats, Thieves.

In a quiz here: (found via @Solamon via @Muzzlehatch

http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do....

I got these results:

You Scored as a : Switch

Switch 100%

Experimental 100%

Exhibitionist / Voyeur 96%

Bondage 93%

Sadist 86%

Masochist 82%

Submissive 79%

Degradation Lover 68%

Dominant 64%

Vanilla 14%

Well...

... outside of BDSM I write a lot (although that is also incorporated into BDSM too, it's a good question that some one raised very recently, does BDSM define us or do we define BDSM? I go with the latter to the greater degree, although both, I feel, are true.) I love music, from Beethoven to Metallica and beyond either way.

My Muse is

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Euterpe

I'm prone to bursts of creativity.

(in progress(!))

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxBfQLHykfI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Q-58QKw4og

“Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave, safely and in a well-preserved body, but rather, to skid in sideways, totally worn out yelling, "HOLY SHIT! WHAT A RIDE!!!”

"What you blush to tell", says Venus, "is the most important part of the whole matter" - Ovid, Ars Amatoria

Quotes with consent of @moltenhoney, cheers darling.

It's interesting to see bits of me scattered araound, not surprising, though.

Languages fascinate me, verbal and non-verbal.

Height: 5ft 2in Weight: 8st 6lb BMI: 21.4

This profile was last updated on 11 May 12, 5:16 PM.

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