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IC Name: curious_wee_lass Joined: 15 May 2011 Last visit: 17 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: G (Glasgow), UK Age: 29 Website: N/A

I have decided I will only meet people who attend the local Munches or similar casual events. There are so many people who will serially stand up and/or seemingly have problems or one sort or another - it's kind of really insulting and disrespectful. I am worth some effort, and being submissive does not mean I have to be a fucking carpet, so don't expect me to be.

I think that I want my first BDSM experiences to be special. That is to say, I want to be part of a deep trust and bond. I am needing to a feel a level of safety, which I think is only available if the Dom starts with me in a kind of fairly normal manner, and introduces new levels and new forms of play over time...

I realise that that last paragraph might be obvious - but I also realise that there are many levels, many hues that make up the different aspects of BDSM. I don't think I would find it a positive experience to be right in at the deep end from the get go.

I am interested in exploring boundaries and and the D/s relationship.

I am resistant to the idea of sessioning, frankly it makes little sense to me because I want to experience depths, and marriages between opposites (pleasure - pain, fear - love, humility - pride, etc). Perhaps in the future my perspective will change.

I am looking for the right Dom for me. The parameters are basically based upon a mutual attraction, including mentally, and physically. And probably another daft thing to iterate, but I have to feel confident in his ability to be responsible regarding the emotional stuff.

I have some -I think- fairly common hard limits. Those are in a nutshell - the first lot really should be a given in my opinion: No beastiality, kids, family... Also no Scat play, AtM and nothing that will cause lasting impairment or damage. I have also recently concluded that the concept of age play blurs way too many lines for me, and I really do not think polyamorous affairs are for me either.

I think I can only find the Dom who is mutually "perfect" through discourse as yet - please don't assume to be trying to dominate me in initial chatter, I find it rude, and believe that it is a compliment to give my submission, trust, and my confidence in the Dom's ability to be responsbible with guiding, toying with, cherishing, me along this exciting journey.

If you expect a sub to call you Sir/Mr/Master/Lord (or any other formal title), before s/he has gotten to know you and articulated the wish to submit, perhaps you should seek a Pro-Bottom.

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