Greetings.

My weight is not on the scale, but is currently around 6.5 stone - finally putting a bit back on!

Firstly, about me. I'm a sub, female (mostly... female bodied, the mind doesn't always agree on the subject!), and into petplay. I am NOT a brat, a fucktoy, or similar. If you're looking for someone who'll challenge you every step of the way, look elsewhere. That ain't gonna be me. Similarly, those of you looking for a quick shag need not apply. I am available at the moment, but please realise that I will want to get to know you before I do anything with you. If you'd like to memo me, please make sure you read my profile in full.

Something for you to consider before you memo me:

Subs thrive on attention. They find it punishment to be ignored. What we see as getting their attention, is giving them attention.

If you understand that, read on.

My interests are thus:

Petplay: I am into kitty and pony play, and have done the former, would like to train in the latter. I currently have a set of hooves and a bridle coming, which when combined with the harness shown in my pictures, make up my pony outfit. I do NOT eat catfood, but I will eat normal food out of pet bowls. It's difficult to find someone with an interest in kitty play as cats are more independent creatures (indeed, as my friend pointed out once, "Cats don't have owners, they have staff"), but if done right it's quite fun for me. I have not done puppy play, but I'm certainly agreeable to trying it with the right person.

Caging is also a big thing for me, as is general restraint. If you're into rope bondage, well that's even better - I'd definitely love to try out shibari sometime with someone who knows what they're doing with a rope, as well as the standard "boring" things you can do with one. I am amenable to groups, of any gender, and have a mild interest in bukkake.

I'm amenable to being a rope bunny if you're willing to put in the time and effort to get to know me and build up a trust relationship with me first

Annoyingly there isn't a ticky box for this down the side and I think there should be - I'm currently interested in exploring play involving lactation.

Now the negative.

I am currently being medicated for a depression/anxiety disorder. You NEED to think long and hard before you contact me whether this is something you can deal with - if not, do us both a favour and don't send that memo. I may have a panic attack during a scene, so you absolutely must be prepared for things to go down the pan and have to be stopped at a moment's notice if needs be. This also makes it very difficult for me to get out and about a lot, so please be understanding if I do agree to go out for a drink with you or whatever.

Limits are as thus:

I am NOT into pain. I accept spanking with a hand. Perhaps a bit of hot wax play if it's done carefully. That is IT. If you want a sub you can whip, beat and paddle, you'd better not look at me. Pain is an absolute deal breaker for me. I'm a submissive, this does NOT make me a masochist. Furthermore, due to a bad experience in the past with an idiot armed with a paddle, you can NOT bring a paddle near me without me having a fit, whether you intend to use it on me or not. So please, if you're into paddles, pass me by.

I do NOT do watersports. Do not ask me to. In any way, shape or form. This is a HARD limit and non-negotiable. Please respect that. Similarly, scat, bloodplay, etc. Basically, if it involves a bodily fluid that isn't spunk, or me coming away with pain or injury, I will not do it. I DO have an interest in bloodplay, but will only pursue that with someone after an extended period of time when there's a trust relationship built up.

Anal play is ONLY acceptable if it is done VERY slowly and carefully. Also, anal and vaginal play in the same session, you MUST be prepared to stop and wash things. I'm far too prone to infections to take even the slightest chance here.

If you've read this far, congratulations, you may proceed.

I am looking for: I am open to play sessions on a no-strings basis, provided I get to know you first - don't just send me a memo and expect me to drop my pants. I won't. I would prefer someone closer to my own age, simply because it's rather unnerving to be propositioned by someone twice my age or more! Please be advised that I am polyamorous and have an accepting male partner. I don't expect you to play with him as well as me - I'm looking strictly for me, not as a couple.

If I haven't stated something in my interests or limits, please feel free to ask - usually even if it's not something I'm interested in, I am willing to compromise provided it's not a hard limit.

Friends of any age, gender or persuasion are always welcome.

If you've read all that and understand it, you may now send me a memo. If your memo makes it clear you haven't read something on here, you WIlL be ignored - I just don't have time to retype all this to people who weren't interested enough in me to actually read my profile. Also, if you have a blank profile, PLEASE tell me a bit about yourself - it's hard to strike up a friendship with someone you know nothing about!

For those of you looking for a friend:

I'm avidly into horses - riding, caring for, anything really! I have a horse and pony on partloan and I'm going to be doing an apprenticeship in horse care. I'm also a reader, and currently into Val McDermid [of Wire in the Blood fame]. I like a whole variety of music, so don't ask me for a favourite band or song.

I have a lot of fluffy things - two cats, a dog and a rabbit. I also dress up as a giant animal to raise pennies for charidee, aren't I mad?

I'm a straight up person. I don't play games. I don't bitch behind people's backs, and I don't take kindly to people who do that. Got a problem? Tell me. We'll sort it out.

I'm a gamer girl, but FPS games are a pet peeve, I do not like them. I'm much more an RPG girl. Eternal Sonata and Lost Odyssey, yes please! I'm also into cutesy games like Viva Pinata, like a typical girl.

I'm a writer, off and on. A lot of my stuff is gay-oriented, so don't ask to see it if that's not your thing. I write as and when the urge strikes me so it may be many months between pieces, but I like to think that you can't rush a good work.

Oh no - I have been sucked into World of Warcraft! If you'd like to find me on there, I'm a Draenei hunter on Earthen Ring primarily - ask me for more info!

Drop me a line - I don't bite!

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This profile was last updated on 13 Dec 11, 11:44 AM.

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