I am not looking because I am happily collared by and married to Tarragon the HerbMaster.

I am interested in intelligent conversation about BDSM with anyone be they sub or Dom/me,m/f/cd/tg whatever but I will not consider playing with anyone other than my Dom. I am a bi woman.

I have been on the scene for a few years now, but don't get out much.

If you are interested in talking to me as a friend you might like to know that I am now 50 and I am a computer trainer and part time Linux nerd. I am a fluffy liberal Guardian-reading pacifist Quaker. I love drinking tea and also like Real Ale and real food (including meat), and I couldn't live without speech radio and music.

Honesty is one of the most important qualities in people I consider to be friends. If my looks or lack of wealth are an important measure of whether you want me as a friend, then we would not get on.

Favourite links: read it and see why.

Commit random acts of literacy! Read & Release , Roman 'post-it notes',

Eye colour: change   Hair colour: brown  

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