bum	IC Name: connie Joined: 20 Jul 2008 Last visit: 23 minutes ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Liverpool & Rutland, UK Age: 49

Hi,

Thought it was about time I sorted this out so I copied my profile over from another site and filled it out a little… lol a work in progress I feel

Please do not contact me if you are in any way attached and in a relationship with another person... no matter how tenuous.... move on!!

For those who have read my profile before…

I discovered something about myself today that has long been in my head but had not formed into words.. I cannot allow myself to want things... for if I do they somehow decompose and slip through my fingers like a melting bar of soap...

Life is what happens while you are making other plans.. I stumble when I dance..... even with small dainty steps

My kinky life is still limited and can make things difficult.

In my book the nilla and the kink have to work together for a fulfilling life

My life can be chaotic

So here it goes....

I am a complicated person who does her best to be uncomplicated.

This says it all really.........

“I feel a good sub should be like an Italian Courtesan of the middle Ages. Loyal, obedient, subservient, and if you mistreat them... they slit your throat before you have a chance to apologize." - Anon

Essentially I am sexually submissive and prefer to lose myself...

Happiest floating about in sub space when playing. I have been accused of topping from the bottom so sometimes I doubt my own submission. I would say I am happy as a switch.

Labels are crass

If the chemistry is right I can certainly top for the right person

I can Domme if I am happy comfortable and in the mood to but it's a package and a different headspace….. so hard to go back to sub once I have that head on…

I don't really understand those who can give with confidence without knowing how it feels to receive…………

I am a contradiction and can be an indecisive mess of emotions but just looking for the best in everything.

I am passionate, happy, confident, unfocused (aka eccentric, bohemian, unconventional and completely dippy)

BDSM... sex... happiness... passion.. satisfaction... all different but intertwined and in my world not usually experienced together. I've been looking for 30 years...lol If you think you can combine apply within

I am now looking for someone to settle with... they would have to understand & accept me in all my guises and love me for it as I would them. Communication... Honesty.... Trust... Freedom... Release... in a partnership is so important for both... otherwise what is the point?

My life thus far has not been easy. I am untrusting, fiercely independent and defensive in my nilla life. I find it difficult to accept help but I listen and do need support. I find if I relax in a nilla situation I slip into sub which can cause me problems if I don't catch it

Below is a growing list of things I hear and like or pinch of other peoples profiles cos I love em

The Chinese Horoscope is always right......

You can't have part time principles...

Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't, you're right.

Every person I meet is in some way my superior, and I can learn from them

Rely on yourself more than anyone else

Life is short, so move slooowly. Cept when in a rush!

The best is still to come

Opportunities multiply as they are seized

The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. Resist it & your soul grows sick with longing, for the things it has forbidden itself - Oscar Wilde

Thanks for reading x

Eye colour: Grey   Hair colour: Red   Height: 5ft 1in   Weight: 9st 10lb   BMI: 25.5  

This profile was last updated on 3 Jan 12, 5:35 PM.

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