IC Name: chsnico Joined: 5 Jul 2010 Last visit: 8 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: LS (Leeds), UK Age: 34

UPDATES

Been to a munch and loved it - thanks to all the friendly people I met Oh, and one word: foam

Sadly I've missed subsequent munches for various reasons and now I'm moving South, and not just for the Winter - but then again, it's a job, so we do what we must...

That said, I seem to currently have a complicated... something... with a Friend of mine, which so far is just utterly amazing Apparently I'm now allowed to say that She is my Domme, given changes in the last few weeks... but we're not officially dating, so make of that what you will

If you want to drop me a line, please feel free to do so. However, I will *not* be playing with *anyone* in the near future, other than my Domme. I don't expect anyone will message me anyway - I've not got any messages from people I don't know, on here...

My Background (updated 09/2010)

I semi-recently became single again after a 3 1/2 year marriage. We have each now moved on and are, for the most part, positive about the future.

Over the years I have acquired (or improvised) various toys and have mainly played with self-bondage to date. With my new freedom I am interested in exploring further this side of myself - and I surprised myself by going to my first Munch (thanks Aberdeen!) and now have 'something complicated' with a close Friend. I am open to potential suggestions

Contrary to my first profile attempt, I'm not exactly sure what direction I would like to take within this new hitherto undiscovered land. For the moment I've set my 'interests' at my first 'best guess', with a focus on things I've mostly had a little experience with. As such I may be interested in playing with anyone, though preferably someone I've met safely beforehand and ideally someone who can be vouched for by somebody else I know. Right now, I am a relatively fresh divorcee, who is in some kind of complicated relationship - in the near future at least, I am potentially interested in exploring this side of myself in whatever ways become open to me. I've not had "just play" with anyone, but I'll try a lot of things (within reason: this community is quite wide-ranging!).

Given my previous experience, I expect that the most likely type of play (or more) that I would be interested in would be along the lines of an F/m connection. However, given my previous 'solo' exploration I also feel quite creative and a little skilled from the other side, at some level - so I may be interested in both developing these further and even exploring my D side (possibly with some help, initially). Also, while I've specified 'seeking female', at some point I *might* be interested in going beyond that... I'm at the beginning of a loooong path (hopefully!)

I'm shortly moving, so until I'm settled you'll just have to chat to me remotely - I feel that can work quite well, at least initially, to see how compatible people are. For the right person, I would travel for a visit.

Where are my other details?

No pictures for now, maybe soon. Real-life meetings were my plan (thankyou friendly Aberdeen munch people!), but with the move I'm putting that on hold until I'm more stable location-wise.

If you met me (if you can tell!) then please consider adding me to your network, if you use that side of things.

I'm enjoying the frankness and openness with which things are discussed in the forums and probably in Munches when there are fewer new people who might be scared away I aim to comment on here as and when I can.

A little more

Science, Japan, juggling, computing/technology, puns - in fact general geekery would probably describe it

Since its not on the top 'stats list', I also should probably say that I have long hair (longest bit reaches my waist) and that I occasionally have a beard (which disappears if someone I'm with dislikes that kind of thing).

For the record, I'm *not* going to get an iPad

Yay for unexpected 'new' friends approaching 'best' status :D

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 11in   Weight: 12st 10lb   BMI: 24.6  

This profile was last updated on 19 Oct 10, 7:55 PM.

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