Not quite a Unicorn

IC Name: chartreuse Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Last visit: 4 minutes ago Sex/gender: Female Location: BA (Bath), UK

Updated 21/05/2012.

I'm a single (divorced) female - 54, independent, confident, honest, level-headed, strong-minded, highly sexually motivated with the right man, private (most of the time), reasonably intelligent/attractive and open-minded about many things but not ALL. I have strong opinions on things that matter to me and am not scared to voice them and... I am right about most things (and always right about things that matter to me).

I'm a realist and know that a strong mutual attraction and a desire to spend time with someone means normal communication levels - it's not ALL about fantasy for me (and it shouldn't be for you, either). I want to enjoy life and love being in the company of a man with whom I connect on more than just a sexual basis. A relationship should be about more than just the sexual side of things; if it is only about sex the relationship won't endure.

I love dining out/in, good conversation, socialising, travelling to places that interest me, reading, writing, cinema (if it's a film that piques my interest), photography, people watching, weekends away, being pampered/spoiled, relaxed exercise (walking, hanging around at the edge of a swimming pool, that sort of thing), Scrabble/Chess and other card/board games, I like a glass of wine/port/champagne with a cheeseboard, weak black coffee or a cup of tea, and more besides - I want to enjoy these things with someone who also has things he likes to do, that he can/is willing to share with me.

I abhor all of "the soaps", football, watching F1, rugby (in fact most sports, except most that involve horses). Drugs are not my thing... I smoke tobacco and I have a drink now and then but anything more than that is a no-no.

Any promise you make should not be broken, you should have the memory capacity/capability, time and wherewithal to uphold the promises you make (circumstances permitting).

You should be free to commit to a relationship - with nothing else going on in your life to distract your attentions away from me, my weekends (spare/leisure time) are precious and I will not sit around waiting for you.

I have quite definite ideas about what I want, don't try to persuade me otherwise - if what you want (and how you want to get it) is different to what I want you're not going to make me happy. I am capable of making compromise but not at the expense of compromising myself.

I want a man who adores me just for being myself.

I enjoy sensuous, erotic, intimate, humorous, impulsive, adventurous, good, honest FUN - with plenty of wit and laughter.

If a man wants a relationship with me (and I accept him) it is up to him to uphold what he offers me. I will not nag, don't try and turn me into one by not doing as you promise, in accordance with our agreement.

It has been said of me that I am "exacting, demanding and high-maintenance" so... if you can't/won't be able to stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen - I am only thought of as "exacting, demanding and high-maintenance" to those who can't be arsed to do as they promise.

I expect a reasonable level of contact and communication in order to maintain/advance any on-going relationship.

Q. What are the components of a good dynamic?

A. A mutual desire to share ourselves with each other.

If you are single, confident, mentally mature, masculine, attentive, self-aware, capable, understanding, well-mannered, willing, polite, patient, behave like an adult, employed, pleasing to my eyes (pic required), reasonably intelligent, solvent, honest, drop me a memo... I am approachable and seeking.

I know... I want, I want, I want BUT... I deserve it!!

Take care... the world is full of weird people.

C x

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Eye colour: Green   Hair colour: Blonde   Height: 5ft 3in  

This profile was last updated on 26 May 12, 12:31 PM.

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