Can you make me bend, or let yourself bend only by looking to each other's eyes? Is it hard? Yes, I know it is very hard. So I am not in rush.

Initially looking for communication, with a perspective to lead further.

Please note: If you do not follow the "Safe, Sane, and Consensual" dogma, or you have any objections on it, then you may stop here.

The Basics

My sexual orientation is straight. I dislike 3-somes, 4-somes etc. and other people being involved in one or other way (e.g. voyeurism, cuckolding).

I am a switch, which means that I like both roles. My mood automatically becomes complemental to yours. I can be moulded to an extreme Dom or slave, if my partner inspires me so. I do not see any strict barriers to my psychology and feelings regarding roles, save that I let my partner choose first. I have observed that I can have entirely different reactions while talking to different women.

What inspires me more than the roles, is the woman behind the role. This is what I try to figure out each time.

In depth

What can we say here? Hmmm... There are lots, so Let's start: technocrat, mathematics and computer expert, educated at PhD and Post-Doctoral level, modernist with liberal views about life, economy, and society. I am a passionate person, articulate, and sincere. I require honesty and kindness, which I give back in return. I like casual dressing, outdoor activities like travelling, motorcycling, and sailing. If not outdoors, I like to spend endless hours on my computer, or reading a book. Last, but not least, I am very concerned about recycling, renewable sources of energy, and sustainable development.

I do have some weak points, as well. A woman with nicely pedicured feet or a woman wearing a long skirt, a dress or a corset captures my attention at once.

I also have some hard limits (like scat, blood, edge play, animals etc), and I totally respect the limits my partner has. Safewords are a must, especially in the beginning. My soft limits are always a matter of discussion and agreement. The hard limits are not. In any case, I am balanced between the sensual and the strict aspect of the lifestyle. I can sustain a lot of pain, but it is surely not my cup of tea. I have participated to public events (with or without a dresscode), and I also have performed on the scene.

About you

The ideal person? Hmmm…… will surely be someone who will stimulate my mind. This is a mind game after all. If you are able to conquer my mind then the rest of me is yours. You can be an intelligent, educated, professional woman, whose qualities reflect mine.

You may have had some good hints reading the above, and you may also add aspects of the lifestyle that are related directly to the mind, like humiliation and mental bondage. I do not have strict age or height limits. I always look a person as a whole, keeping in my mind specific details of particular interest (like fetishes, way of dressing, maturity and more).

What I don't like is people into the virtual relationships. I find them pointless, without anything essential to offer. Internet can let us have an initial contact and communication, but without the physical contact, the whole game is a waste of time.

Additionally, I can't stand people who can't write or speak their language properly. I never use truncated words on my messages, I never use slang, and I have the same expectations.

Was it too much for a profile? Maybe... I tried to make it as short as I could, and at the same time definite. Just keep in mind that you have to do with a manifold multidimensional character.

I visit munches and events in the scene of London. I have a very distinct appearance, so it will be very easy to recognize me. I like to socialize and talk to people in real. Besides, I do not have much time to spend in here. I am a workaholic person, so I rarely participate to the fora here.

“Fora” is the plural of “forum”, as we have to do with Latin words. Unfortunately, the word “forums” is preferred… Well, language is something that continually evolves, and becomes more and more simplified.