me	IC Name: canupleaseme Joined: 14 Aug 2008 Last visit: 18 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Chesterfield, UK Age: 33

I love this lifestyle, been into the scene for coming upto 8 years. I wouldn't say I'm an uber experienced Domme but I know what I like and I like what I do...

I am many things: mum,carer,geek to name a few. I am generally happy in life and work very hard to better myself. I love love love trance music and go to festivals when I have the time and energy. I work very hard and have little spare time so I am crap at replying to messages or getting back to people.

I love walking and am trying to do a lot more to keep fit. I'm not a skinny minnie but I'm also not huge so we shall call me curvy I have lots of tattoos though you wouldnt guess when looking at me...

My Relationship: Where do I start..... I met my very gorgeous silly boy on Bondage.com 6 years ago we have been in a relationship for 5. We have a very healthy realtionship and work very hard at communication. We did the whole long distance bit and then I got my claws into him and havent let go since he now lives here with me and its all good :D He is an amazing man and my best friend to boot. We tend to play in a kinda 24/7 for extended periods then have a break as I need a lil love and snuggling now and again. We are currently monogamous but thats mostly because I don't believe him when he says he wants to be cuckolded lol and I havent found the right lover yet...

So how do I role as a Mistress..... Well it all began with an intense love of controlling men sexually, and the occasional woman. I'm not a stern kinda girl as a rule but I do enjoy a good bitch scene when the mood takes me. I am all sweetness and light till I get you tied up. I love CBT and am keen to learn new tricks. Chastity, humiliation, restraints, gags, god most things its easier to say what I don't like. I don't like anything to do with shit. Obviously nothing with animals or kids or anything that invloves sick yuk !!! I like some edge play but my partner is a mardy baby and won't let me play with needles and that kinda thing, he also isn't big on pain so I miss having a good old slap at someones butt till its nice and sore n hurts for days

I have sessioned as a sub in an intense scene to push myself and see what it was all about. I learnt many things I fucking hate canes ! I am definately not submissive and I have a very high pain thresh hold lol what a waste !!

So what am I looking for .......... Anyone with a general skill that could help me with home stuff or gardening in exchange for session time. A cute lady to be a sex mate. A nice gentleman who will take me out treat me nice then take me home and fuck me while my silly lil boy is all tied up. New bums to abuse at events lots of things really...

WHAT I DON'T WANT.... putting this in capitals so we are all nice and clear:NAPPIES PLAYERS ANOTHER SLAVE PEOPLE WHO AREN'T COMFORTABLE WITH THEMSELVES THIS LIST IS QUITE EXTENSIVE....

I am a smoker and wont apologise for that but will be respectful, I like a joint when ~I have the space and time and I dislike most music if it isn't trancie, this is important to note because I have music on all the time.

Well thats me....

Eye colour: green   Hair colour: blonde   Height: 5ft 4in  

This profile was last updated on 5 Aug 11, 12:17 PM.

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