| My continued journey on this voyage of discovery means that another rewrite of my profile is needed. I have been on IC almost three years now and in that time I have read a lot of the threads and weblogs and I have learnt from them.
Changes have happened in my life during that time. My confidence is growing as I get out more and meet more people. When I first joined IC I was quite shy and happy to be in the background, just looking in and watching. Now I am much more outgoing and able to talk to new people more easily.
I think my confidence has come from the lovely people I have made friends with.
When I joined I put myself as submissive, during my exploration I discovered a toppy side to myself, so now I think if there has to be a label then mine is probably switch.
What am I looking for…The answer is knowledge, friendship and a chance to explore and find out more about what I like and don't like. I am looking to make new friends, to learn from them and so broaden my horizons. I would like to meet people to play with preferably on a regular basis. I don't drive so would prefer to play with people who do not live too far away from me.
What do I know I like so far… When I started out I knew I liked pinwheels, and other sensation play along with some pain. As I have explored it has become quite obvious that the pain is the main attraction for me along with the subspace a good session takes me to.
I have now tried a whole range of things and have liked them all.
There are things I would like to expand my experience of, this includes bondage and maybe eventually suspension. I watched a demo recently on knife play and this has given me a new route to investigate, I already like sharp and scratchy things so knife play seems to be a natural progression. I am generally willing to try new things, “how will I know if I like it if I don't try it?”
I co-host the Dudley Dungeon munch with Franky58 and I'm a regular at the Dudley Dungeon and Unleashed as well as the Brum mid week munch and the BBB. If you see me at any of these places do come and say hello. I am looking forward to meeting more people, and to expand on my experiences.
If you like what you have read and would like to get to know me better then send me a memo.
Lara
This isn't a dress rehearsal. You get one life....live it now.
Music that sums up how I feel
Its my life by Bon Jovi
Sleep when I'm dead by Bon Jovi
http://www.thedungeonclub.co.uk/
http://www.bbbunleashed.co.uk/
Dudley Dungeon Munch phone no. 07979278409
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