Why I'm here

I was fortunate to discover I.C. a while back, so I've been fortunate enough to meet some really genuine people through here too. My main reason for coming back is to keep in contact with them, and maybe meet some more great people too.

A bit more about me:

Of course I enjoy consensual bondage in virtually all its forms (typical exceptions apply). I'm very handy with the rope, my hands, other toys, and can build more than a flat-pack wardrobe.

I'm not a Sadist (in that I don't get pleasure from causing pain itself), but I do get pleasure in giving pleasure (which can have many influences).

Bondage, Domination and Submission are my key focuses, but being an equal out of the bedroom is important too (ie I'm looking for someone who I can have fun with, not a passive 24/7 slave).

I have a weirdly diverse background, ie as a: massage therapist, hypnotherapist, photographer, corporate trainer, F.E. tutor, entrepreneur, sales guy, engineer, general handyman, IT geek, chef, hotelier, outdoor instructor, ..., I've been doing voluntary (and paid) work with kids of all ages for most of the last 20 years too.

In summary: "a Jack of all trades, and a master in the bedroom".

Essentially, I love learning, and I hate to miss out on great opportunities in life. It just worked out that the things I started doing for myself and some of my businesses, people starting paying me to do for them too.

I'm typically monogamous by default, but also know that I'm happy in a Poly relationship too, or with multiple casual partners (with mutual understanding at all times of course by all people involved). This is not that I'm just out for whatever I can get.. but that when I trust someone, I respect them for the time I have with them, and don't tend to get jealous too easily.

I am currently single, and have started looking again as such (no immediate rush, but not sitting around waiting for things to happen either). I'm keen to meet the right person/people, but aren't planning to spend time with the wrong person/people hoping things will work out eventually.

My life has many aspects, and many business responsibilities, but I have a surprisingly flexible schedule, and lots of spare time (that I normally just fill with other things in the meantime).

I'm successful in various ways, I keep pretty fit and healthy, I'm vegetarian, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I'm comfortable working with various types of energy (Reiki, auras, mediation, electricity, etc.), I shower regularly, and I still have my own hair where it should be. [I don't mind if you're not most of the above too, at least a couple would be good though]

I'm generally motivated, passionate and tactile (and I actually love to give a good massage, which is why I've been working in this sector happily for more than 15 years alongside other interests!)

I'm predominantly a top (but do occasionally switch once in a while when the mood (and person) is right).

I'm very happy with ropes (and how to use them securely and safely). And of course have some great bondage items built/brought over the years when it's not just the rope.

{I've also developed a bondage board game that should be ready to launch one day, hence the namesake and occasional 'pro' status in the scene as such}

Who I'd like to meet:

If you're open-minded, have a positive outlook to life, like to experience new challenges, share your respect with others, and can smile at the thought of just walking down the road then it would be great to hear from you.

I'd like to meet sub/bottom/switch women, to continue enjoying the many aspects that bondage has to offer.

Personally I'm a fan of sensual bondage.. ie bondage where you're bound securely, but comparatively comfortably (even if you are outstretched, semi-suspended, hog-tied, etc). I then love to work across every inch of your bound body, heightening the senses, gentle caresses, firm pressure, teasing, sensualising, building, and then holding you back. Being in control of your pleasure, and of course taking you well over the edge. Variety is good, but so is taking time.

My most enjoyable aspect of this scene is self-bondage (I love to find a women who's tied herself in preparation, either as directed, or by her own devices).

It would be great to find a significant relationship through this site (and I'm on some vanilla dating sites too). However, 'play partners' would be great to meet in the meantime again (if we chat, meet, and get on, etc.).

Ideally: you're an model/dancer/actress who loves to be bound, with your own paraglider/surf board/kite surfing kit (and a new VW camper). You do voluntary work at the local animal rescue, between rock-climbing, cooking amazing vegetarian food, and learning massage. And this is all to fill some of your excessive spare time/money as a result of your worldwide monopoly on organically fair traded sustainable chocolate chip cookies.

Otherwise: if you think we've things in common, please do drop me a memo

Links:

Some other links I've found of interest, you might like too: - http://bedroombondage.com - http://houseofgord.com - http://societysm.com - http://google.co.uk

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: lightbrown   Height: 6ft 2in   Weight: 12st 13lb   BMI: 23.1  

This profile was last updated on 12 Oct 11, 8:02 PM.

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