IC Name: bound_to_pain Joined: 11 Apr 2006 Last visit: 94 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Aberdeen, UK Age: 46

Hi, Before I go any further I do have a Dom (Chironathome) who I live with happily. I just thought it was time to update my profile to reflect how I now see myself after a few years in the scene.

When I first embraced BDSM I thought of myself as submissive. This has not turned out to be the way of things.

By nature I'm a very strong willed person and do not find myself able to submit to someone elses will easily - this comes out strongest in everyday life. However, when in a scene I love being restrained, humiliated and abused. So in many respects I no longer see myself in a traditionally "submissive" role, but more of a pain slut who can only relinquish control when in a scene.

My bossy side seems to be showing itself more and more, but not in a BDSM "Domme" way, where I am looking to play with subs. I like to organise things, which is why I am a co-organiser of the Aberdeenshire munch.

I do this because I really enjoy chatting to other people in the scene. So if you want to chat feel free to send me a memo.

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