I am a person first and a deviant second.

As a person:

Work – I work for myself which means that sometimes I am very busy and sometimes I take a break.

Home – I live in a typical house in Lancashire which I own.

What I do – I think, I read, I live.

I like watching most sports, a variety of music and in particular I enjoy going to gigs and music festivals.

My heart is filled with laughter.

I am a deviant.

As a deviant:

I am open to experiences. Much of what I think about BDSM has evolved and will continue to do so.

I do not describe myself as a Dominant although others do. Omniviant is the term I use. I do not aspire to be the best or most dominant, I am simply me. I tend to find that I live in a world which is submissive. The world will yield if the right pressure is applied.

I can use rope, floggers, canes, whips, etc. and I am constantly looking for new experiences. I occasionally go to play parties. None of this is set in stone – I do not need to play in public – although there is a certain turn on from it, and the equipment makes it fun !

Bodski's BDSM is founded in the psychological. It can work either way, but for me, the psychological drives the physical reaction – and that reaction is big. Let me show you.

My Ideal Person:

I have certain preferences both physically and psychologically. The following is a guide only and all subject to change with the right person or people.

I have a penchant for redheads, skinny girls and girls younger than myself - so you should be 20something slim and with red hair - but in truth none of that matters at all.

You should be open to new experiences. I have no intention of helping you to re-live previous experiences, simply to show you new ones. All experiences with me will be new, because you have never experienced me before (and even if you have, I have changed).

You should want to go on a journey with the purpose of the journey being the journey it self - not the destination.

If you are interested in D/s, you will probably be submissive. Within any D/s relationship I may undertake, I see D/s as recognising an imbalance of control and power. D/s is about celebrating this imbalance. BDSM is limitless and so should be your submission. As such, any decision to become my or anyone else's submissive is not something which should be taken lightly.

If you are interested in Marmite play or Pot Noodle play, move on - there is no place for that in Bodski's BDSM.

General

I unchecked all of the boxes about interests since it is such a personal thing. It is unlikely that I would want to do all thigns with all people. I guess that this means I won't show up on many searches - so be it, I am really not for everyone.

I am mostly here to keep in touch with friends and make new ones. If you are interested in getting to know me better, I am very friendly. If you drop me a mail I will reply.

Peace, peace, peace.

Bod. ~O

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