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IC Name: black_swan Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Last visit: 3 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 47

re-write 3 Jan 2012

You

If you're a woman who is...

• warm and empathetic but tough
• kind, generous-hearted,
• intelligent (or / and street smart),
• attractive,
• fit (or fairly fit),
• sexually adventurous (very, not fairly),
• interested / interesting in the non-kink world,

AND...

• you have a strong sense of self,
• you have a deep, need to submit to the right person,
• you love to laugh

...I'd love to meet you!

Me

I live in North London and have a full social and professional life with good friends, many interests and lots of travel. I also happen to be a hard-wired dominant. I can't imagine being fulfilled without kink but there are many other things in my life. For me, kink is essential but it's personal - it doesn't determine my social or professional life. I have lots of experience taking and exercising control in various ways but I'm not on the scene or part of any BDSM "community". Good luck to those who are - it just isn't for me.

The list of interests on this profile shows something of my experience but each relationship is different. I don't have a laundry list of activities I require from you in order to get off. The essential thing for me is to take control and to have more and more of you over time.

Outside of kink, I enjoy (passionately) a wide range of interests. I've been fortunate with the breadth of my life experiences (especially places and cultures). I'd like you to be a strong, interesting, bright woman who's hard-wired as a sexual submissive. Those are the essentials; everything else is down to individual chemistry and circumstances.

I have limited patience for internet bubbles. If we 'meet' on here, and are both interested, I would expect to speak fairly quickly. I'm not on the 'scene' - your privacy will be respected just as much as I expect you to respect mine.

Eye colour: dark   Hair colour: dark   Height: 5ft 11in   Weight: 12st 7lb   BMI: 24.2  

This profile was last updated on 3 Feb 12, 12:08 AM.

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