Drinking "moose juice" in Atlanta while visiting Mistress in Sept 08 |
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A closet kink for many years, on 07/07/07 I attended my first Cambridge Munch and hope to explore and share this side of myself evermore in the coming months.
To cover the classification labels, I'd describe myself as a straight switch.
I'm very into bondage (and have accumulated an embarrassingly large self-bondage toybox); the sense of helplessness and surrender that comes from being in restraints makes me extremely docile and obedient.
I have a strong desire to please and bring pleasure to others, whether from the top or the bottom.
Pain is just pain to me, so I don't classify myself as a sadist or masochist (at least not yet). If I wanted to endure agony, I'd have kept my last job working in insurance. ![]()
I recently experienced sensation play for the first time, though, and I definitely have to give that two thumbs up!
I quasi-recently moved to Cambridge, and am hoping to develop friendships and hopefully more with the local deviants.
I'm now working my dream job as a computer game developer, so my vanilla interests tend to be predictably geeky ... computing, tabletop roleplaying, writing, and the like.
I've been brought up to be polite and courteous (despite an acerbic sense of humour), and I believe strongly in consensual play that is enjoyable, fun and liberating for both parties.
Now that I have the opportunity to embrace this lifestyle in the flesh, I'm very eager to learn, grow, and expand my boundaries.
Eye colour: Hazel Hair colour: Brown Height: 5ft 8in
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