Courtesy of Volcanic Sparks and her snake whip

IC Name: beady Joined: 8 Mar 2001 Last visit: 2 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: East Sussex, UK Age: 40 Website: http://beady.livej...

So anyway, welcome to my little corner of the 'net. It's not much, but I call it home. Pull up a chaise longue, and let's begin:

I'll get the labels out of the way first:

39, male, switch, sadomasochist, bisexual, polyamorous, dancer, drummer, Myers-Briggs INFJ, right-handed walker of the left-hand path, and all-round wisearse. I have a strong heart, but a weak will. My mouth can, and generally does, get me into trouble.

More than that, what can I tell you?

Well...

• I have been known to sell vital organs to get my paws on Green & Black's White Chocolate.
• I have a terrible memory for names and dates, but a brilliant one for utterly useless trivia.
• I practise mindfulness meditation, and have a strong interest in NLP and hypnosis.
• Psychology fascinates me, particularly social psychology and psycholinguistics.
• I'm nocturnal (for me, the concept of 8am only exists as a time to go to bed).
• I know all of the playable two letter words in Scrabble. And what they mean.
• I intend to read the internet from cover to cover to see how it ends.
• I drink Lady Grey Tea, with milk. (Yes, I know, I'm a heretic).
• I'm currently falling in love with the works of Van Gogh.
• If I were into pet play, I'd be a rat.
• I am amusingly phobic of wasps.
• Spike Milligan is my hero.
• I'm a poker nerd.
• I like winter.
• And women with long hair.
• And sunrises, and dark moons.
• And cute, corruptible sissy boys.
• And anyone in a pair of killer heels.
• I tend not to read or watch the mainstream media.
• I have been told that I have a strong moral compass.
• I am fiercely protective of my friends and loved ones.
• I can turn the bath taps off with my toes (I'm aquadextrous).
• I've been called a "dirty fucking pervert", and take that a compliment.
• I regularly get sucked in to Wikipedia and Dictionary.com for hours at a time.
• I'm of the opinion that one can never have enough piercings, tattoos, or other bodmods.
• I collect foreign languages and am liable to practise them without the slightest provocation.
• I have eclectic musical tastes – from Carcass to Bach, via Count Basie, Philip Glass, and all points in between.

I have a kink list as long as your arm, so I'll list some of the main ones: sensory deprivation, high heels, long hair, sissies, fear play, inescapable bondage, high heels, dacryphilia, humiliation, rubber and pvc, chastity, high heels, knives, needles, leashes, and I almost forgot, high heels

And if truth be told, that list is as valid for me as a dom as it is as a sub. They still push the same buttons in me, just for different reasons.

Things that make me think:

You'll bump into me at the Eastbourne munch, the St Leonard's munch, Guilty Pleasures, the Club With No Name, and wherever my whimsy takes me. Do come say hi.

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Shaved   Height: 5ft 11in  

This profile was last updated on 26 Jun 11, 11:29 PM.

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