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| Profile: | beady |
| Created on: | 8 Mar 2001 |
| Last visit: | 13 hours ago  |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | East Sussex |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| MSN ID: | beady71@hotmail.com |
| Age: | 38 |
| Hair colour: | Shaved |
| Eye colour: | Blue |
| Height: | 5ft 11in |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Male or Female or MtoF or FtoM or Not Stated | | Ad title: | Polyperson/people sought for our family |
| Ad updated: | 33 days ago |
The précis
I'm 38, polyamorous, a switch, a pagan, an epicure, bisexual (I identify as #3 on the Kinsey scale), a smoker, a sadomasochist, and degree educated. Myers-Briggs classes me as an INFJ. I run the Eastbourne munch. I have 20+ years of playing privately, and 10 years publicly.
I'm currently re-exploring my sub side with the lovely @ItsMissGemmaToYou. We are interested in increasing our nascent polyfamily with likeminded people.Far more useful information - I can turn the bathtaps off with my toes.
- I collect foreign languages and love to practise them when possible.
- I am fiercely protective of my friends and loved ones.
- I am a fan of mindfulness meditation, and have a strong interest in NLP and hypnosis.
- I tend not to read or watch the mainstream media.
- I have been told that I have a strong moral compass.
- I have been known to sell vital organs to get my paws on Green & Black's White Chocolate
- Ditto for good quality cheese.
- Psychology fascinates me, particularly social psychology and psycholinguistics
- I drink Lady Grey Tea, with milk. Yes, I know, I'm a heretic.
- Spike Milligan is my hero.
- I have an inquisitive, logical mind, and a thirst for knowledge.
- Consequently, I regularly get sucked in to Wikipedia and Dictionary.com for hours at a time.
- I have a terrible memory for names and dates, but a brilliant one for song lyrics, 70-80s adverts, and other useless crap.
- I'm a practising witch.
- I'm currently falling in love with the works of Van Gogh.
- I love people watching.
- I like to feed ducks.
- I also love watching people feeding ducks.
- I am a drummer - tribal and drumkit - and get out and about to drum at a number of events during the year.
- I am drawn to alternative types - goths, metalheads, greenies, pagans and so forth
- I am curiously phobic of wasps
- I have a number of piercings and tattoos, and love the same on my partners.
- I intend to read the internet from cover to cover to see how it ends.
- I am nocturnal and love staying up all night with good company to put the world to rights.
- I typically dislike music that gets into the charts.
- I'm a complete slut for women with long hair and/or high heels.
- I like sunrises and dark moons.
- And winter.
- I like classical music, big band, ambient minimalism, and death/drone/black metal.
- I know all of the playable two letter words in Scrabble.
- And what they mean.
- I have a really soft spot for rats and mice.
- I am/was a dancer and teacher of ballroom and Ceroc and would like to get back into it again.
- I play a fair bit of poker, and can hold my own in a tournament.
- I've been called a "dirty fucking pervert" and take that as a compliment.
The pervy bit
I've been kinky my entire adult life, and have found to my cost that I cannot "do" vanilla relationships. I had been sub for many years, but about 4 years ago that started to change as I began feeling dominant. Over that time my submission waned and I had a number of wonderful relationships with female subs and slaves. I identified solely as dom.
That is, up until very recently.
Y'see, of late that little spark of submission has flared up again and started me wondering what it'd be like to be the one on their knees and on the receiving end of the whip once more. To feel the need to obey, to please, and to be hurt. I have identified as sub on my profile rather than switch as it's my sub side that I wish to embrace again. The dom has receded back into his box for the forseeable future.
I don't readily drop into service-oriented submission, until I submit completely (more of that later). Until then, be prepared to envisage me as one of those annoying "do me" subs. You know, the ones who just want to be used, abused, tortured, headfucked, teased, pierced, controlled, beaten, fucked, securely restrained ... and cherished as one would a pet ... and owned, body and mind. Actually, it doesn't sound too bad when you put it like that.
I'm not going to list all the things I'm into, other than to say that I do play pretty hard, and I love the edgier aspects of this lifestyle. Yet the absolute key for me is the D/s dynamic itself. The way to win me over and have me submit completely is very simple: get deep into my head and exert your control. Note I said that it's simple - I didn't say it was easy. But then again, the thrill of the chase and subsequent capture is all part of the delight of what it is that we do. And I'd just hate to be thought of as easy...We're seeking
Someone to add to our polyfamily in the South East. The ability to click at an intellectual level as well as at a kink level is vital. I figure that if you've read this far into my profile you'll understand where we're coming from.Where to find the lesser-spotted Beady
You'll bump into me at the Eastbourne munch, the St Leonard's munch, Guilty Pleasures, the Club With No Name, and occasionally LAM. I love making new friends, so please feel free to come up and introduce yourself.
I plan to be at the following events, please do come and introduce yourself: - 19th Feb - Club With No Name, Eastbourne
- 3rd March - Eastbourne munch
- 10th March - St Leonard's munch
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(Lastly, I'm still beating this profile into shape, so don't be surprised if it changes.) This profile was last updated on 23 Feb 10, 2:03 AM
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