18 Jan 2012

IC Name: angellover Joined: 2 Jul 2008 Last visit: 2 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Brentwood, UK Age: 56

I believe submission is not about suffering...it is about service. submission is not about humiliation...it is about humility. submission is not about being used... it is about being of use. submission is not about control... it is about letting go. submission is not about proving anything... it is about being real. submission is not about contempt... it is about respect. submission is not about how you look...it is about how you care. submission is not about punishment... it is about discipline. submission is not about being unable to escape... it is about being committed. submission is not about fear... it is about trust. submission is not about sex...... it is about love.....

I am a sub who sometimes gets a certain cheeky glint in my eye and a little bratty when I want to push things to merely push the boundaries to see who's in control and to be taken down.

Being a sub does not mean that I become a different person, it does mean that I will be true to myself and others. What am I looking for: As a single female submissive I am interested in entering a long term relationship with someone who would value and respect my submission. I do have a tendancy to put a advert on for a day or two and from time to time but if I get fed up of the repies, I turn the add to invisable.

I am a long term relationship person, so therefore I am not interested in merely scene play, or getting involved with anyone who is not single, no matter how much your current wife is willing to have your needs met elsewhere!

So I want a single Master who likes to control his submissive, one who has an imagination like me, He will have a personality and understanding of both our needs, teaching me his ways yet knowing when to and not to push my boundaries safely. One I can look up to with respect and pride because His open and honest. He will be open with communication and accepts me for whom I am and allows me to grow with Him.

Please note: Honesty and openness is the most important part of the lifestyle for me (the trusts one has built can be wiped out within a second), yet a meeting of minds, the giving of submission and the control rendered can be the most wonderful experience on can ever have in life if they have the right connection together.

I have a strong personality and when out I appear very confident. I am Not looking for playmates.

Respect has to be earned, it's not just a given right.

Quotes I like: Life's a bitch then we die. (my Dad)

When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.

Life isn't simple, but the beauty of it is, you can always start over. It'll get easier. Alacia Bessette.

Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination. Oscar Wilde

I like this place and willingly could waste my time in it. William Shakespeare.

Count your age with friends but not with years. Unknown

You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back. Unknown

With nothing you dont buy a rolls royce.

Music I really enjoy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dq5neEAVYiw&featu...

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y9Zczm7wSzI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPsfojnkCUs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIZoQjh7M1U

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxkMlS2nuU8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xu-A0jqMPd8&featu...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEY9kA3OYNE

Likes: On a BDSM level these include such things as hoods, japenese bondage, flogging, wax, ice, knife and claw play, servitude, bum play, nipple & fanny clamps, piercings, paddles, canes, oooh and thudy play that's sensation, the type that ripples through your body when impacted with a heavy blunt object to the arse like a prison strap and did I mention, I like hoods.

I do enjoy background music as it adds another dimension to the phychological experience.

I have many vanilla interests, including, music, walking, socialising, cinema, gardening, alternative therapies, architecture, art, going to the shows, poetry, entertaining, travel and eating out.

Even though I can be an extrovert, I am also cautious until I get to know someone, some would see me as a little hard or a cold case but once in, then I am more down-to-earth and I adhere to agreements and I do remember that we are both half of the equation, yet I do expect you to have the final say.

Dislikes: Toxic people, injustice, greed, bullying, drivers that think their cars come with optional extras like an indicator they forget to use, the toilet seat being left up and bad manors.

I am also known as @sub_spaceleathers

With me all things will be be SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) or, if you prefer RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink).

We all have the right to refuse what we don't want and the freedom to live as we choose. To be Ourselves.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.

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"The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind."

Eye colour: hazel   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 2in   Weight: 11st 10lb   BMI: 29.8  

This profile was last updated on 29 Jan 12, 10:54 PM.

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