Me blocking sunset, Drakensberg mountains, SA

IC Name: abusive_whisper Joined: 16 Oct 2010 Last visit: 41 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: DE (Derby), UK Age: 27

First things first, I'm a total mind-whore.

I find people fascinating and I love to find out what makes them tick. This desire is aggravated when it comes to BDSM. For me, sadism is not just about the bruising flesh, but about the emotions you conjure up in the sub and the journey you take her on. Admittedly, the kiss of leather or the impact of a palm is a sizeable part of the fun, but for me, the allure lies in the sensations and experiences you can create for another person.

Especially those heady combinations of shame and arousal, pain and pleasure...

As for my vanilla life, well, I write. Lots. It's a major obsession of mine and I'm always tweaking away at manuscripts, short stories and recently, surrealist poetry. Let's see, what else? I spent last summer learning how to sail, and a couple of summers before that teaching in a township school in South Africa. Definitely want to one day get a boat onto a sea and sail off for more adventures.

Also I am one of those people who loves deep, philosophical conversation. Preferably over a good Highland whisky.

Thank you for reading these murky musings.

If you're interested, make sure you get in touch.

Eye colour: Grey   Hair colour: Dark Brown   Height: 6ft 1in   Weight: 12st   BMI: 22.0  

This profile was last updated on 15 Jan 12, 11:18 AM.

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