IC Name: You_May_Kiss_My_Ring Joined: 8 Jun 2011 Last visit: 19 hours ago Location: PA (Paisley), UK Age: 33

I am in the process of returning to kink, and to Dominance, after a break of a good few years. I cannot offer years of experience and references due to circumstances I'd rather not publish in public, but I do have some experience. I'm still in the process of re-learning the ropes, of course.

Play-wise, I am looking for submissives, preferably fem-subs, who are still finding their tastes, but know their limits.

More generally, I'm looking for support and camaraderie as I find myself and my new place in the scene, and try to find a way to explain to my friends that the reason I'm often quiet and solitary in a vanilla setting is that I don't want to scare them off because of this element of my sexuality.

I don't have any pictures up here, because there have been a few issues with images being visible to non-members (although it seems this has passed now). If you want a picture, either ask me or visit my Fetlife profile (KissTheRing).

Experience.

Most of my experience, since my return, has been hands-off, and hands-off lifestyle, instructing and commanding from afar, whether in real-life or by telephone or IM chat client. I am, slowly, moving into more physical and directly sensual aspects.

My basic rules, to date:

• I don't do age-play - I don't want to be called "daddy", I don't want you to play a school-girl or innocent. If I like you, you may be allowed to address me with a properly respectful title;
• trust is vital - I want to know that you trust me and feel I can trust you before we even consider doing anything;
• honesty is essential - if you have limits, or feel your limits pushed, I want to know BEFORE things go beyond enjoyment.

• I am a keen reader and graduate (with a Masters degree), and enjoy a diverse range of literature and academic subjects.
• I enjoy art and photography. I would be interested in engaging in body-painting and photography with a willing submissive, having been unable to take up offers in the past.
• I enjoy a wide variety of music and try to play a variety. I do not like crowds, but enjoy live music when the venue is right.
• My taste in films is diverse in the extreme, and I enjoy cinema-trips and quiet nights in with a DVD.
• I am disabled. I have a neurological condition that affects my ability to concentrate and to form memories, It's not immediately obvious, but it does mean that I can find problems with some basic everyday tasks. I don't let it rule my life, but it's important not to mislead people on this front.

MSN ID:lilaclemur@hotmail.com   Eye colour: hazel   Hair colour: auburn   Height: 6ft 2in   Weight: 14st 7lb   BMI: 25.9  

This profile was last updated on 17 May 12, 8:12 PM.

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